Intercultural Communication

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In the process of globalization, the intimate relationship between people from different racial, ethnic, national and regional groups becomes such a normative thing and is seen as good sign of integration process and social diversity. According to Ho (1990), the definition of “intercultural marriage” is explained as the marriage between partners from different racial, ethnic, national or religious backgrounds. Now intercultural marriage becomes a trend and receives a massive notice, which explains why it appears as frequent topic on several magazines, news, documentaries… Many couples now are more interesting in this topic and also can have better advices in this field than they were 30 years ago, when intercultural marriage was such an unfamiliar and also unaccepted thing worldwide. Happy marriage is seen as a hard target for everyone to get because marriage is not a road full of rose with happy and comfortable moments all the time; however, those in intercultural marriage even have to undergo the more stressful situation with the pressure from society and family. They are also in high percentage of having problems related to values, eating and drinking habits, gender roles, raising children, attitude regarding time, religion, place of resident, stress, and ethnocentrism (Romano, 1997). In order to overcome all conflicts in intercultural relationship, people have to manage the balance between differences and similarities, so that not only they will have a success and happy marriage but they also have a great source of how to deal with intercultural communication.

Since the middle of 21th century, there has been a rapid increase in the number of intercultural marriage, which is the result after the Supreme Court declared the lega...

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...ising question about intercultural marriage have to be concerned enough for those practice this kind of marriage. Everything has two side of its effect, negative and positive. The way people flexibly deal with problem will gain them more knowledge and skill about intercultural communication and whether or not their marriages succeed, they still get benefit out of it. When we expand our own original boundaries, there is still possibility we get to know something that useful to ourselves and completely change our own personalities after all.

Works Cited

Romano, D (1997). Intercultural marriage: Promises and pitfalls (2nded.). Yarmouth, ME: Intercultural Press.

Ho, M. K. (1990). Intermarried couples in therapy. Springfield, IL: Charles Thomas Publisher.

Martin, Judith N., and Thomas K. Nakayama. Intercultural Communication in Contexts. Boston: McGraw-Hill, 2007

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