The Importance of Bieng Earnest by Oscar Wylde

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Marriage is of paramount importance in The Importance of Being Earnest. In the play, marriage is reflected as the conventional Victorian society respectability, which is character, income, and status. These three criteria were considered to be the nature and purpose of marriage of that time. In a cynical way, marriage was considered as a means to an end.
Oscar Wilde ridiculed the institution of marriage. Throughout the play, The Importance of Being Earnest, there is a pessimistic view on marriage. In many lines, Wilde made a mockery of the most sacred tradition; marriage. The hypocritical custom and traditions were also mocked. Marriage is the plot’s main core, where the two young men desire to marry two young women, who in return desire to marry men named Ernest. Wilde poked fun at the aristocrats by using marriage for mainly two reasons. One it is a traditionally sacred ceremony, and two, he can emphasize the importance of wealth and status among the upper class. Marriages, among the aristocrats, were viewed as a financial contract.
Wilde’s view of marriage is that it is blight, which could be because of his own marriage or his homosexuality. Wilde found his marriage to be a bore. In The Importance of Being Earnest, the characters make witty jibes against the institution and concept of marriage by poking fun at the monotony of marriage, the social misuse of marriage, and the reasons to marriage. Wilde also expressed through the characters that romance and happiness is hindered within the bonds of matrimony. He also viewed that with marriage, comes stress and unhappiness.
Wilde’s view on marriage is known through the characters. For example, Lane insinuates that marriage is boring by stating that the wine is better in the hous...

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...y a short period of time. At the quick sign of trouble, couples easily tend to look at divorce for a solution. Divorce is not a solution when a bump comes along the road. The marriages I have experienced are arranged marriage. But those marriages are more successful than love marriages. Whether it’s the upbringing or culture, divorce is not an option.
Oscar Wilde’s assessment of marriage can be considered cynical, but it was a relatively accurate assessment considering the time period. On the other hand, his opinion would be disregarded now, as people do not tend to marry for social status or financial gain, but for love and companionship. I agree with Wilde’s opinion of marriage in the Victorian society, but I do not believe that his opinion is accurate today. Personally, I believe in the institution of marriage. Marriage does not mean the end of romance and love.

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