How the Western Concept of Marriage has Changed

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“In Western cultures, more than 90 percent of people marry by age 50. Studies show that healthy marriages are good for couples’ mental and physical health” (“Marriage and Divorce,” 2014). For children, growing up in happy homes help with their mental, physical, educational, and social well-being. Unfortunately, about 50 percent of married couples in the United States divorce. The rate is even higher for subsequent marriages (“Marriage and Divorce,” 2014). The social institution influence (structural) differs from the individual influence (life choices) in divorce by the scope of perception on why divorce occurs (Amato, & Previti, (2003). The perspective of structural issues would include gender, social class, and external pressures. Individual influences can be attributed to infidelity, drug and alcohol use, along with physical and emotional abuse. While individuals in a marriage may grow and find new interests in their life, it is up to each couple to re-evaluate and mature as a team to find a mutual approach to growing old together and escaping divorce.
The difference between structural and individual phenomena in divorce can be attributed to outside influences or internal influences. Do we look at what others think we should do or what we feel is right? Do people in my socioeconomic class get married and stay married or do they divorce and remarry often? The definition of marriage and its functions has always been universally understood by society as a permanent joining together between individuals for the purpose of child bearing, socialization, and family formation. These societal guidelines for who could participate in marriage have always been determined by who could perform these functions. Therefore, societ...

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