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Motivation plays a vast role in each and every one of our lives. It is the intrinsic or external drive that causes us to get up and move to accomplish our ultimate goals. There are many factors that help shape our motivation and drives. Researchers like Alfred Adler have analyzed the effect of a person’s birth order on their personality. Upon personally taking the birth order personality inventory, my score indicated that my psychological birth order was being the first-born, which is in fact true. According to Adler, the first- born is typically directive, goal-oriented, and high achieving due to very high expectations from parents. This can completely be applied to my life. Since I was enrolled in grade school, my parents have pushed me to strive and be successful in school. They have always had high expectation for me and I have always felt obligated to fulfill their expectations. One of my major motivations to get good grades and be good in school was making my parents proud and not letting them down. Another aspects that can shape personality according to Adler, is having an abundant amount of responsibility that comes with being the first-born. In my life, I can also relate to this aspect. My parents held strong their high expectations because they expected me to set good examples for my younger siblings. The idea of my sibling looking up to my every move became engraved in me. At times it did feel overwhelming and stressful to think if I feel into bad influences, so would my brothers. This served for me as a major motivator to stay above the influence and try my best in everything I do at all times. I can honestly say that having younger siblings shaped who I am today tremendously. If I never feel i...

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...t oppression and have control over their own actions. Having control can be empowering and motivating enough to obtain that power. I personally like to have control over my own decisions in my life. I would not like to be pushed around and be told would to do. It would be nice to have control over what I decide to do and I am motivated to achieve this control. In order to get goals accomplished we need a push of motivation to help us get off our feet and slap the laziness away. As for my life, I am motivated to achieve and obtain power over my actions and my life. I am further filled with external and intrinsic motivation to be successful and make someone of myself, and lastly my personality has been shaped due to my birth order and as a result has led to my high levels of motivation. I know that with my high motivation to succeed, I can achieve my ultimate goals.

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