Women's Expectations Research Paper

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A Women’s Expectations Women were treated very differently in medieval society. Society in this time considered women less important to men. There was an idea in the twelfth century that a woman’s only role was to serve her husband. This was an all around accepted stereotype in Abelard and Heloise’s time. In The Letters of Abelard and Heloise, Abelard and Heloise have dialogue where they talk about the women’s role in society, and what it was like for women in this time. Abelard and Heloise’s discussions had many references to the role of women in medieval society. As stated before, society treated women less important than men. It was the wife’s duty to always make her husband happy. Abelard said many Biblical quotes such as “a good wife makes a happy husband” (60) to further this point. Society also made it seem as though a wife was property. Abelard also states from the book of Proverbs “A capable wife is her husbands crown” (60). Society in this time believed women should serve men by staying by their side, making them happy, and having intercourse with them. Heloise herself thought she was inferior to men. Abelard agreed with Heloise that in the “natural order of the world” men came first (72). Abelard and Heloise, and society for that matter, accepted this. Heloise clearly stated that she thought women were the weaker sex by saying: “no one would lay on an ass a burden suitable for an elephant, or expect the same from children and old people as from men, the same, that is, from the Sundell 2 weak as from the strong, from the sick as from the healthy, from women, the weaker sex, as from men, the stronger one” (96). In general, women did not get a choice on who they married. Social class and wealth were a huge determi... ... middle of paper ... ... or marry anyone else. Heloise was an independent woman of this time, contrary to women being the weaker sex. Both Heloise and Abelard’s writing is considered “exceptional in any age, whose letters move through the widest range of emotions” (Radice, liv). Heloise was not considered a feminist in any regard, but she is a result of how much education a woman could receive. Heloise shows that women could have gotten a well-rounded education. Men did, however, have more opportunities for education. Men could go to universities while women could not. To conclude, this novel makes it very clear that women were considered less than men, but in the eyes of God, both men and women could sin equally. Women were to Sundell 4 make her husband happy, and do as he wishes, but sins, such as pre-martial sex, were something that was considered wrong for both men and women.

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