Why Tom Is Unhappy

Why Tom is Unhappy and, Eventually Leaves The Glass Menagerie, written by Tennessee Williams in 1944, tells a tale of a young man imprisoned by his family. Following in the footsteps of his father, Tom Wingfield is deeply unhappy and eventually leaves his mother and sister behind so he may pursue his own ambitions. Throughout the play, the reader or audience is shown several reasons why Tom, a brother to Laura and son to Amanda, is unhappy and wishes to leave his family. However, the last scene describes Tom’s breaking point in which he leaves for the last time. Amanda tells Tom to “go to the moon,” because he is a “selfish dreamer.” (7. Amanda and Tom) The reasonings for Tom’s departure are due to his mother’s constant nagging, hatred for

Later, Amanda once again harrasses Tom for jeopardizing his job and the family’s security, all to go to the movies and drink liquor. Foreshadowing his own leaving, Tom angrily gestures to his father’s picture on the wall saying to his mother, “you say self [myself], self’s all I ever think of. Why, listen, if self [myself] is what I thought of, Mother, I'd be where he is - GONE!” (3. Tom) To elaborate, Tom is saying that if he was truly as selfish as his mother describes, he would have left long ago, just like his father. Throughout The Glass Menagerie, Tom remains hateful to his mother, and even names her a witch during one of their arguments. It is safe to say that Amanda is the one person that really drives Tom

You think I'm crazy about the warehouse? ...You think I want to spend fifty-five years down there...I'd rather somebody picked up a crowbar and battered out my brains...For sixty-five dollars a month I give up all that I dream of doing and being ever! (3. Tom)

Tom clearly does not believe that staying at home with his mother and sister is worth the unhappiness he feels. A common issue that arises in The Glass Menagerie is Tom’s nightly trips to the movies. When asked about his frequent trips to the movies, Tom describes that “adventure is something I [he]” doesn’t “have much of at work.” (4.Tom) Living vicariously through the movies he sees, remains one of Tom’s only true sources of happiness. The third and final reason Tom is unhappy and wants to leave, is due to his dreams being put on hold to support his family. Tom envisions a life of adventure, something of which he feels his life is meaningless without. After his father leaves, though not his obligation, Tom takes over the role as the man of the house. Tom feels that he is now responsible for taking care of his mother and sister. Even though Amanda and Laura need him, Tom decides anyway to leave them in search of his own adventures. Tom does not necessarily want to be unlike his father, he thinks of his wanting leave as a gene of sorts, a destiny, something he is supposed to do. When Tom’s coworker, Jim, is invited to dinner, Tom even confides in Jim that Tom is “like my [his] father” and that he is “the