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“If it’s in a word, or it’s in a look, you can’t get rid of the Babadook…” The Babadook is a non-traditional horror movie that challenges conventional notions of motherhood. The Babadook protests the notion that single mothers are incapable of raising children alone, and that there always needs to be a male dominant figure present for a family to be considered complete. In American society the conventional notion of motherhood is perpetuated by the image of a White, middle-class heterosexual couple with children (Barrie 3). In this family model the father acts as the dominant figure in the marriage, while the mother is tasked with child rearing and submitting to the male’s desires (Devor 673-674). Although the roles of the father and mother …show more content…
Samuel is not only an example of the classic distraught child characteristic of a troubled family, but also is a reflection of Amelia’s true desire. Samuel acts as the traditional dominant male figure in the relationship, because there is no dominant figure to take control. Samuel is constantly seeking attention which represents the archaic idea that woman needs to abide to the needs of a man. Amelia is frightened by these constraints as they begin to control her life. Samuel’s destructive behavior makes it increasingly difficult for Amelia to have a normal life. Instead she sacrifices everything to take care of Samuel, even going as far as to alienating herself from family and friends. When Samuel is kicked out of school for almost injuring another child, “A dart could have ended up in the eye of a child, or worse … Samuel will be separated from other children,” Amelia begins to alienate herself from others (Babadook). These chains that bind Amelia to the social norms of motherhood makes Amelia feel as if she has no control of her life. Samuel destructive behavior can be linked to Amelia as if he is a negative image of herself that she wants to control, but cannot, which is further exemplified by Samuel’s mannerisms. As the movie progresses, Amelia and Samuel’s roles become reversed as Amelia is able to defeat the Babadook and regain control of her life, while Samuel reverts to the ideal …show more content…
The Babadook is a metaphor for life’s real horrors: depression, constraint, and loneliness (Solomon 370). Amelia’s inability to completely dismiss the Babadook is a representation of how grief cannot be completely dispelled, but rather accepted. In the ending scene we see a change between Amelia and Samuel. Samuel tells the social workers that this is the first time that they celebrated his birthday on the actual day because Oscar died taking Amelia to the hospital to have Samuel. This signifies Amelia’s acceptance of the death of her husband as she is no longer hiding from it. The social workers are uneased by this anecdote, but for the first time, Amelia calmly states that Samuel is just like his father, always speaking his mind. Samuel has become much more innocent and well behaved, and his mother has become more accepting. Amelia no longer fears the constraints of motherhood, but rather she embraces them because she is now strong enough to handle them. The scene continues to the garden where a black rose is seen. In an article titled, “Roses for Love: The Meanings of Black Roses,” the black rose symbolizes not only death and loathing, but also rejuvenation and rebirth (The meaning of Black Roses). The rose is reflective of Amelia’s acceptance of her husband’s death and her new happier life. Amelia once again visits the basement, and it is revealed that she has been keeping the Babadook
Parenthood Film Family Analysis Paper Introduction The Parenthood film depicts average families that are changing life course which is the building block of many families. We have the father and mother with marital disfigurations of attachments, and lack of attachment between themselves and the relationships involving their four adult children and grandchildren. Furthermore, in this paper a description of accepting the shift generational roles and Structural Theory is analyzed and discussed by in an article moreover, the Buckman’s family members accept financial responsibility for self and their families. Lastly, the subsystem chosen for the analysis speculation is Larry.
The dependency on their mothers can negatively impact their relationship with their fathers. In many cases, the father is no longer part of the family unit, putting the young man in the role of the ‘man of the house’. This in itself has a whole new set of problems. Their mothers teach them to be kind and helpful; yet as young as Kindergarten they are taught to avoid their mothers’ ideas and emulate their fathers’. Why? A mother’s ‘negative influence’ can make them compliant and possibly question manhood. Kimmel states, “Boys learn that their connection to their mother will emasculate them, turn them into Mama’s Boys” (547). No male wants to be perceived as soft or emotional, they want to be tough and brave, perhaps even feared. If they hang around their mothers, they possess the idea they will develop into babies and do “woman” stuff. Kimmel shares a story of a mother saying that her husband took their three and a half-year-old son to a barber shop to get his hair cut. The barber used hot and painful chemicals in his hair, when the boy began to cry the barber called him a wimp and informed the father that his son had been hanging around his mama too much and that needed to change. The father went home upset and announced to his wife that the boy would be doing sports and other activities with him. Boys learn at an early age that involvement
In chronicling how the family structure has changed in America, it is important to understanding how family was actually defined. When referencing Leave it to Beaver (further referred to as LITB) times, family took on a substantive definition, or the idea that family was equivalent to relative, or related by blood or law. While this definition of family served the time period, it failed to evolve with society. For that reason, sociologists set out to determine a “more inclusive functionalist definition,” that focuses on what families do. “A functionalist definition of families focuses on how families provide for the physical, social, and emotional needs of individuals and of society as a whole” (Witt). With that, the functionalist perspective identifies six primary functions, which include reproduction, socialization, protection, regulation of sexual behavior, affection and companionship, and...
In his essay “Not All Men Are Sly Foxes,” Armin A. Brott writes that despite the efforts to rid children’s literature of discrimination, it continues to present fathers as playing a second or no role at all in the home. Brott notices that the mother figure has improved into a successful mother that does everything from taking care of her home and kids to supporting the family with a profession. The author refers to the book favored by his two-year-old daughter as well as to the books he located in the children’s section of a local library. Also, Brott found the same negative stereotypes in parent’s guides, where little to none information is targeted towards fathers. The author’s concern with the
Jack Salmon, Susie’s father, is most vocal about his sorrow for losing his daughter. However, his initial reaction was much different. Upon hearing that Susie’s ski hat had been found, he immediately retreats upstairs because “he [is] too devastated to reach out to [Abigail] sitting on the carpet…he could not let [her] see him” (Sebold 32). Jack retreats initially because he did not know what to do or say to console his family and he did not want them to see him upset. This first reaction, although it is small, is the first indicator of the marital problems to come. After recovering from the initial shock, Jack decides that he must bring justice for his daughter’s sake and allows this goal to completely engulf his life. He is both an intuitive and instrumental griever, experiencing outbursts of uncontrolled emotions then channeling that emotion into capturing the killer. He focuses his efforts in such an e...
act, and devoted his entire attention to his love for Amelia. Amelia, however, felt no
The garden is the vehicle in which the narrator reveals her reluctance to leave behind the imaginary world of childhood and see the realities of the adult world. The evidence supporting this interpretation is the imagery of hiding. The narrator uses the garden to hide from reality and the changes of growing up. When she no longer can hide from reality, she tries to hide from herself, which leaves her feeling disillusioned and unsure of who she is.
The family had severe financial issues, due to the father’s love of alcohol, and the girls would be sent by their mother to their grandparents’ home on a frequent basis. Due to their financial situation, they moved around often and Amelia attended many different schools. She excelled in science and sports. Her parents also split up on a frequent basis; in 1915, their mother split from
A main theme in this small town’s culture is the issue of gender and the division of roles between the two. Not uncommon for the 1950’s, many women were taught from a young age to find a good man, who could provide for them and a family, settle down and have children – the ideal “happy family.” As Harry states after singing the showstopper “Kids,” “I have the All-American family: A great wife, 2 wonderful kids and a good job.”
Just as girls are pushed into societal standards, a newly invented standard has been introduced for males in society, known as the “child-man” ethic. “Child Man in the Promised Land”, written by Kay S. Hymowitz, is an argument in which the author states that the “child-man” ethic is prevalent and harmful to society. Hymowitz explains this ethic using a variety of supporting evidences, and explains both the implications of the “child-man” ethic, as well as its effects on the next generation. The “child-man” ethic has many social and cultural implications, since this ethic has changed social implications from just 20-30 years ago. Back then, in a man’s late 20s, he was “married… met your wife in high school…you’ve already got one kid, with another
We also see in this scene the theme of fear and how it affects the people in the book. In fact, in this first act, we see how Abigail is trying to install fear in the girl’s mind. Indeed, when they are discovered and that they try to tell the truth, Abigail shouts at them words that are meant to make them fear her. Right in the scene, she says: “Let either of you breathe a word, or the edge of a word about the othe...
Throughout the text, Jackson alludes to the idea of gender roles in a family setting, and how they’re perceived and enforced. The story depicts families that conform and rely on traditional gender roles such as, fathers being the leader and representative of their households, sons being the next most dominant family member, and women following the rules
There is much debate on what constitutes as a family today. However, Ball (2002) states, “The concept of the traditional family…is not an immutable one. It is a social construct that varies from culture to culture and, over time, the definition changes within a culture” (pp. 68). There is a growing diversity of families today including the commonality of sole-parenting. In order to explore aspects of sole-parenthood objectively, I need to reflect and put aside my personal experience of growing up in sole-parent household. Furthermore, this essay will explore the historical origins, cultural aspects discussing the influences and implications of gender identity, and social structures of sole-parent families, as well as consider the implications in midwifery by applying the sociological imagination. Mills (2000/1959) describes the sociological imagination as “…a quality of mind that seems most dramatically to promise an understanding of the intimate realities of ourselves in connection with larger social realities” (pp.15). In other words, the sociological imagination involves the ability to consider the relationships between personal experiences and those within society as a whole.
Marth J Cutter from Brown University details the psychological gender differences between Mother and Father and their relationship on a linguistic level. Cutter’s points out that not only was Mother subordinate to men and ignored by them, there was no foundation for commentary to even occur (Cutter, 280). Their son, Sammy, and his disregard for
The Babadook is no monster or demon, but rather is a representation of Amelia’s mental illness, in this case depression due to the loss of her husband. Horror films often use monsters to portray the things in the real world that we are afraid of. Or in the words of Robin Wood, what society has a whole oppresses or represses. Mental illness throughout history has constantly been repressed by society, prompting individuals to hide or try to fight it without actually coming to an understanding of their condition. Although the Babadook is drastically different in its style and delivery from the 1970’s horror films that Wood wrote her piece, “The American Nightmare” about, the Babadook perpetuates the points made by Wood. The Babadook plays into Wood’s analysis of “otherness” or that which society cannot recognize or accept, but rather deal with it in one of two ways: either by rejecting it and if possible annihilating it, or by rendering it safe and assimilating it”(Wood, The American Nightmare, pg 27). Throughout the majority of the film, Amelia attempts to take the first road, by denying her problem, projecting it onto Sam, and then by attempting to annihilate it by killing Sam. However, the Babadook will not be so easily dealt with. The Babadook actually tells Amelia, “the more you deny me, the stronger I’ll get”. Much like mental illness, if it is left untreated or denied, the person’s