Zack After a long life filled with interesting and educational experiences, an elderly person would deserve a lot of respect, but they don't always get it. In the stories of, "The Old Grandfather and His Little Grandson," and, "The Wise Old Women," there is a constant theme of respecting people because they're people, not because of what they can do for you. In the first story, a couple loses respect for the husband's father because he aged and became more dependent on other people. The couple realized that what they did was wrong, so they resolved to change. In the second story, a cruel lord makes a law to kill off all the old people in his village, but one man hides his mother instead of letting her die. The lord later realizes his mistakes and gets rid of his terrible law. In these two stories, elderly people are treated with disrespect by young people, but the young people soon realize that what they're doing is wrong. The two stories describe old people in completely different ways. The first story describes the grandpa as being blind, deaf, and toothless. When he eats, food falls out of his mouth. It is also hard for him to move. The second story describes the mom as a lady in her early seventies. We learn in the story that she can still move, talk, speak, see, and hear. The grandpa was always sad, but the …show more content…
Elderly people were treated with disrespect by younger people, but those young people realized their mistakes and fixed them. We can still follow in the example of the people who helped end the bad treatment of elderly people. It is still important to treat elders with respect. They can provide us with wisdom and compassion, but that's not the only reason we need to respect them. It is our duty to respect all people, no matter what they can do for us. That includes the elderly people who have lived long and eventful
Respect is a such a simple concept and a virtue that should be simple to follow. It means treating other people and animals in a dignified manner. Respect doesn’t mean that people need to hug everyone they come across or hold their opinion higher than everyone elses. Respect means treating others as equals and acknowledging that as human
“Abuelito Who” is a poem, while “The Old Grandfather and His Little Grandson”, is a folk tale. Both poem and folktale have a hidden meaning beneath the seemingly simple words that make up each. For example, in the poem “Abuelito Who”, it is emphasized that something has happened to the speaker’s grandfather using phrases such as, “used to” and “doesn’t live here”. This could possibly mean that the grandfather had died, or was kicked out of his current home. As the story proceeded, the most of the characters changed in some way. In “Abuelito Who” when the grandfather “didn’t live here anymore”, the speaker seemed somewhat depressed. This was a large difference from the more joyful tone at the beginning of the story. Unlike the character changes in “Abuelito Who”, the character changes in “The Old Grandfather” were for the best. At the beginning of the folk tale, the parents were cruel to the grandfather and mistreated him in several ways, but when they saw their son repeating their cruel actions and intending those actions for them in the future, they soon realized the mistake they had made and became “ashamed because they treated the grandfather so
The story I decided to analyze is “A Worn Path” by Eudora Welty. A Worn Path is about a courageous old woman looking to find medicine for her sick grandson. The old woman is referred to as Phoenix Jackson in the story and her loss of memory and poor eyesight makes it difficult for her along her journey. Welty tells “A Worn Path” in third person limited point of view and uses symbolism and imagery in describing obstacles Phoenix faces as well as the love for her grandson which may have also aided in her perseverance along her journey.
The story opens with Granny trying to refuse the care of her doctor. The story is viewed through limited omniscient and through her eyes we see that she feels she is strong enough to care for herself. She sees the doctor as unnecessary and views herself as a well woman. She actually tells the doctor to "Get along and doctor your sick. . . leave a well woman alone. I'll call for you when I want you" (1682). This is the reader's first insight into Granny's stubbornness to receive help of any kind. She also regards the doctor as disrespectful, making comments like "that brat ought to be in knee britches" and "I'd have you respect your elders young man." (1682). She tries to command respect by invoking colloquialism of age equating to wisdom and/or a right to be respected and exercise control over their juniors. When the doctor treats her with patronizing actions Granny dismisses him.
People of different ages often have problems with one another because of the depravity of society and culture. Because of age differences, people are usually seen as incapable or have no ability to carry out things that others are able to do, like surviving or taking care of themselves. In one book, Two Old Women, by Velma Wallis, the two main characters, Sa’ and Ch’idzigyaak, were left because they were old and just wore down the tribe or so the tribe believed. “The council and I have arrived at a decision… We are going to have to leave our old ones behind” (Wallis5). They thought that doing so would help them rebound and get back to living a normal lifestyle. However, the complete opposite of what they expected happened. Instead of thriving, many of the tribe’s members ended up dying on their journey. The society that they were a part of made a decision of leaving the elderly behind, in hopes of recovery, but deterioration is what resulted. In the end, the society and its influences on the desperate people i...
Proper respect for others begins by a person respecting their self. Respect is developed by expressing honor, leadership, value, and trust in a person. If everyone respects everyone someday, the world will become a seventh heaven. It is important to be respectful for safety, to abide by the law, because children are influenced by their elders’ actions, and because God says so. Motivation from peers can help a person realize there is always room to improve the level of respect a person exhibits. Respect was, is, and always will be a positive attribute for everyone to strive for in their lives.
Respect to me is admiring someone for their abilities, qualities, or achievements. I think respect is always earned an can never be given. As soldiers soldiers we should always respect our peers because they have made the same sacrifice as us. But as soldiers we should have a higher level of respect for our NCOs because they have done their time an have earned it. Being respectful is not hard it is simple, just treat others the way we would like to be treated ourselves.
To begin, the characters help to develop the theme in both stories. In “The Old Grandfather,” the author uses the old man, Misha, and the parents to teach you to treat your elders with respect. Misha is the main character that develops the theme. This is because Misha makes a wooden bucket to feed his parents, and then the parents realize they are mistreating the grandfather. In “The Wise Old Woman,” the characters that help to develop the theme are the farmer, the lord, and the old woman. The farmer went against the law to hide his mother and cared for the elderly. On the other hand, the lord was mistreating the
The issue of authority and respect has been and will be an ongoing issue between youngsters and their elderly. In the story Red Dress by Alice Munro and the movie Rebel without a Cause by Nicholas Ray the issue of authority and respect comes up many times through the character actions. Authority and respect is directly linked to one another. It is very hard to obey supremacy if you have no respect for authority. In both the works we have studied, all the characters have trouble dealing with the issues of authority and respect for themselves and for others, they do not show respect to their parents and therefore does not look upon them as authority figures.
Journals along with our textbook speak upon how important it is to learn about gerontology and the efforts social workers can assemble to secure a positive experience. Many social work institutes recognize the current aging process related to many aspects and continue to research future commodities and resources for older adults. The population of older adults will continue to flourish leading to 72.1 million older persons by 2030, drastically growing from the year 2000. (Glicken) As well as the population increasing, the lifespan of older adults is believed to go well beyond 120 years of age.(Glicken) Many older adults have served younger generations without looking for compensations which makes me suggest that it is only fair to treat older adults with dignity and respect. Aging in the Know states that it is important to understand that each older person is unique and acknowledging environmental factors and/or genetics is important in finding situations that corresponds with the individual and their experiences. I’m sure nursing homes, texts, articles, etc. agree that promoting a healthy lifestyle for older adults is valuable. Pat...
Aging is universal and it is a process that everyone has to go through. The only difference is that everyone goes through this process at their own pace influenced by factors that will be discussed later on in this paper. When we think about factors that have an influence on older adults and how their life may be affected, we must consider the different social institutions while analyzing influences from social factors, cultural factors, and personal values. Abuse to older adults, stereotyping and informal care and technological advancements that affect older adults are the three topics that will be discussed in this reflection. Furthermore, will connect the three topics I have chosen to the knowledge that I have gained from my interaction
In three seperate dictionaries, respect is defined as a regard for or appreciation of the worth or value of someone or something. In my opinion, respect goes far beyond this definition. Respect is the cornerstone of the society in which we live. Although many look at respect as simply treating another person or thing with kindness, this word has many different aspects. For instance, I would not give an elder the same type of respect that I would give my peers or myself. Respect is not considered a neccessity in this world but, I can’t imagine a person getting very far in life without this virtue.
The elders of this generation are more active, more involved, and more independent than in the past. Today, they are living healthier and longer lives. However, even though the population of older Americans rises, so does the occurrence of elder abuse and neglect.
The first similarity is that elderly people are left out of the society. In the novel, the elderly cannot have a family. They live in the House of the Old because they are separated from the society. All the people are getting older and weaker without exception, so it is hard for them to live without family. Nonetheless, the society isolates the elderly. “The Old were sitting quietly, some visiting and talking with one another, others doing handwork and simple crafts. A few were asleep” (p. 28). Likewise, in the modern society, elderly people are lonely. Some avoid taking care of their parents suffering from disease like Alzheimer. The elderly are apt to be easily depressed, and this depression can be triggered by the deaths of their spouses, relatives, and friends or by financial worries. Therefore, old people need constant care and their family’s affection. However, due to hectic lifestyle of current society, many elderly people live alone or in care center without their family.
Our elderly should be afforded the best possible care. This care should not only be financial but mentally and emotionally as well. They may not be able to care for themselves, but they have paid their dues, and took care of us now it's our turn to take care of them. As our elderly parents or caregivers enter their twilight years we should honor them by making their final years enjoyable and as comfortable as possible. They paved the way for us to be the adults that we are and in most cases led to the success that we have had.