What Is Physical Abuse?

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The bruises of the heart linger forever; these bruises cannot heal as the bruise on the skin does. Emotional abuse does more harm to the heart that physical abuse does (Stosny, 2008). Mentally it will kill one inside, with fear from the heart all the way to the brain, you are affected in so many ways.Yes, physical abuse leaves bruises on the surface and scars in the heart, yet once they heal it seems to get easier to handle and deal with. Once words are spoken, they cannot be taken back, they will cut the heart like a knife with a wound that can never heal; therefore, think before you speak.
When mentally abused, after the yelling and torment is over, the abuser is sorry and loves you again. They will never do this again, and things are great again. The victim thinks things will change as the abuser stated; however, it only stops until the next outburst. The yelling happens quite often, or if not yelling the put downs, shamed, controlling stages are more often than physical abuse. With physical abuse the bruises fade away quickly, nonetheless, they can and usually will leave a mental scar for life (“What’s Worse:”, 2012).
Physical abuse is easier to explain than mental abuse, also easier for the abuser to take ownership of. If shown a bruise, they cannot very well say it …show more content…

They all end up hurting hearts and souls deeply, the mental scars from even a tone of voice or a word, cannot be healed. Physical abuse will heal on the skin, however, at times the tendons, nerves, and muscles can never heal completely after the abuse. The pain from this injury is only felt at certain times, or one only remembers it when they go to get a pitcher of tea and can no longer grip it, so again it seems to heal some. A victim of physical abuse can escape, leave that sucker behind, yet the mental scars from either abuse, they can never escape (“Types of Abuse -”,

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