What Does It Really Mean To Be A Wife By Judy Brady

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What Does It Really Mean To Be A Wife? The essay “I Want A Wife” by Judy Brady, was written in the 1970’s, and is about a wife and her long list of duties. Brady make a list of things that a wife is suppose to do in order to be a good wife and make her husband happy. It’s more about how male see us as wife. Brady start her essay by saying “I belong to that classification of people known as wives.”(Judy Brady, pg 1) I like how she said “classification of people” this is same thing as saying this the way men see us, and stereotype that all the wife have to do the same thing. In this first sentence she is establishing who she is, she is a wife and a mother.

In her essay she explain how men see woman. And that wife is more treated like a servant.

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