Unforgettable Memories And Values In Tim O Brien's The Things They Carried

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Stories can save us. Each day we live our lives we are given the chance to believe and tell stories. In Tim O’Brien’s novel, The Things They Carried, we are able to get a more personal approach on the ways in which the soldiers coped with the unforgettable memories and images; that would be with them for the rest of their lives. No matter how tough these men were, they were not physically, mentally, or emotionally prepared for what the Vietnam War had in store for them. At the beginning, the narrator O’Brien says, “for the most part they carried themselves with poise, a kind of dignity” (20). After the war, the psychological burdens the men carried during the war continue to haunt them and define who they are. Those who survive carry guilt …show more content…

The narrator, O’Brien himself, states,
“By telling stories, you objectify your own experience. You separate it from yourself. You pin down certain truths. You make up others. You start sometimes with an incident that truly happened, like the night in the shit field, and you carry it forward by inventing incidents that did not in fact occur but that nonetheless help to clarify and explain” …show more content…

He has taken many of the incidents that he experienced while at war and made up other truths, to help clarify his point, and to take away from the tragedy within the story itself. Furthermore, O’Brien says, “we kept the dead alive with stories” (226). While at war you meet many people, and you lose many people. These soldiers, would tell stories to make it seem like the friends they lost were still alive, in order to rid themselves of the sorrow they were having because of all the death they were experiencing. O’Brien, explains that when Rat Kiley would tell stories about Curt Lemon, by saying, “to listen to the story, especially as Rat Kiley told it, you’d never know that Curt Lemon was dead. He was still out there in the dark, naked and painted up, trick-or-treating, sliding from hootch to hootch in the crazy white ghost mask. But he was dead” (227). We are able to see here that their use of storytelling was not only a way of killing time, but also indeed a way to cope with the lost and tragic experiences they went through during war. Also, O’Brien states, “they’re all dead. But in a story, which is kind of dreaming, the dead sometimes smile and sit up and return to the world” (213). Once again we are able to see that these stories are used for much more than a way of passing time; however, as a useful method of coping with the events that took place. Perhaps, O’Brien

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