Things Fall Apart Change

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We are all a part of change. Whether we want it or not, change finds us all. The question is never of whether change will come but when it will come - how it will come. Will it come from within? From choice? Or will it come on the wind of a hurricane, blowing in silently, steadily, stealthily, until it grows to be unstoppable? This does not matter. Change will come, and it will come in a myriad of ways. Change is a collision of old and new, an explosion of conflicting ideas, and its shrapnel will find its way to the heart, irrevocably wedging itself in. All that matters is how we face it. Do we face it alone? Together? Chinua Achebe’s Things Fall Apart illustrates this concept through the life of a family caught in the crossfire of a cultural
It is Okonkwo’s relationship with his daughter Ezinma that reveals how refusing support in times of change leads to one’s downfall.

In the beginning of the novel, Ezinma is bold and borders on rebellious, a stark contrast from the expectations of her society. From the moment she is introduced, she is painted as different from others; the first thing we learn about her is that she calls her mother by her name, suggesting she either views herself as or is treated as her mother’s equal. However, we see that Okonkwo still holds her to rigid gender expectations when he tells her to “Sit like a woman!” and “that [bringing his chair] is a boy’s job.” She obeys his wishes when in his presence, but when she is with her mother, the reader sees a mischievous or rebellious side of her. Achebe states that “very often it was Ezinma who decided what food her mother should prepare,” which contributes to the favoritism she is shown as her mother’s only child. This favoritism influences her rebellious side, allowing her to think she can get away with things other children cannot. One of the ways her rebellious side shows is when the author reveals, “Ekwefi
Because he did not accept her support. Ezinma was there, but Okonkwo did not embrace her presence; he did not use her support. It is true that Okonkwo resisted the cultural shift brought by the missionaries, but simply resisting this does not bring about one’s downfall. It is when they attempt to stand on their own, a tiny pebble against a wave of change, that they will fall. Ezinma and Okonkwo’s relationship is a lesson in letting others in. When she is young, Okonkwo pushes her away because she is not a boy, and thus many of her behaviors are unacceptable to him. Okonkwo only sees Ezinma for being rebellious and strong - traits that would be welcomed if she were male - and decides that she is not of use to him. What he fails to see is that despite these traits, she cares for him, and only wants to see her father happy, as is the worldview of children. When she is young, her support is less obvious and not needed as much, but had he embraced it, their bond would have been even stronger in the future, and perhaps he would have been less reluctant to accept her help. When Ezinma is grown and their bond has developed into a mutual understanding, it is clear that everything she does is to help Okonkwo, for even though she has matured, she retained that one crucial wish: to see her father happy. Unfortunately, what she sees as happiness, Okonkwo sees as weakness, so he pushes her away. His obsession with Nwoye’s betrayal blinds him to the support of his family - of Ezinma,

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