Theme Of Sula

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Beginning early in her life, Nel’s hopes and aspirations for her future are controlled by other people. As a child, Nel’s actions were dictated by her controlling mother: “Under Helene’s hand [Nel] became obedient and polite” (Morrison 18). Throughout her childhood, Nel never gets the opportunity to truly experience being a kid; she was raised in an obsessively clean, quiet, and orderly home. Morrison explains this in saying, “Any enthusiasms that little Nel showed were calmed by the mother until she drove her daughter’s imagination underground” (18). To gain some control in her life, a young Nel tells herself, “I’m me. I’m not their daughter. I’m not Nel. I’m me. Me” (28). This declaration empowers Nel as she attempts to take control of her …show more content…

On the contrary, Sula is given too much freedom as a child, a controlling force in itself as she never has any structure in her life. Although this freedom allows Sula to create her own identity and make a life for herself apart from society’s expectations of her as a woman, it also prevents her from knowing what it would be like to have a normal life. Due to the constant presence of noise, disorder, and commotion at home, Sula favours the quiet “oppressive neatness of [Nel’s] home” (29). This speaks to Sula’s character because although she is viewed as impulsive and emotional, she can “sit on [Helene’s] red-velvet sofa for ten to twenty minutes at a time - still as dawn” (29), simply observing the calm around her. This shows that Sula yearns for the sense of order she never experiences in her own home. *CONCLUSION AND TRANSITION TO NEXT …show more content…

As Nel reaches adulthood, her previous affirmation to stay true to herself does not remain constant. As an adult, Nel becomes the embodiment of the societal expectations placed on her as an African-American woman; she is married, has never left the Bottom, is a stay-at-home mother, and regularly attends church. Similarly to the other black women in Medallion, she has turned into a submissive housewife with no dreams or ambitions of her own. Nel’s “me-ness”, the sense of control she swore to keep forever, begins to deteriorate when she marries Jude. In complying to his proposal, Nel hopes for Jude’s aspirations to become her own. In reality however, she abandons her own ambitions by embracing and validating her mother’s and the black community’s conventional ideals of happiness: getting married, becoming a mother, and having absolute devoutness to one’s husband. When Jude leaves her after having sex with Sula, the life Nel has so carefully built for herself crumbles, as does her façade of control. The perfect life she was supposed to live is now in shambles. In her adult life, Sula makes it her personal mission to become everything the women in Medallion are not: independent, self-controlled, and unique: “Eva’s arrogance and Hannah’s self-indulgence merged in her and, with a twist that was all her own imagination, she lived out her days exploring her own thoughts and

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