The Theme Of Love In Wendell Berry's 'Jayber Crow'

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How can you love someone, when you do not know if they love you back? In Jayber Crow, written by Wendell Berry, he use love to represent how Jayber feels about Mattie Chatham. “ I can’t dream about a person I’m in love with, but I can see if she feels the same way about me.’’ Jayber fell so in with Mattie; he could not go a day without thinking they were married in his head. Mattie think Troy is the one for her, but Jayber has had for love Mattie since they were little kids. Jayber always thought that Mattie was his wife,but in reality he just a friend. He was in a competition with Troy over Mattie, he wanted to treat Mattie the way she had never been treated before. Jayber finesse Troy when he went back and told Mattie he was dancing with …show more content…

“ The story of the next dozen years of my life could be made long, but I want to be careful to the officer you only proper handful just enough to describe the course that carried me away from the Port William neighborhood and then twelve years later brought me back again to the proper end of my life, to the love of my life, Mattie Chatham.” Jayber only cared for Mattie, he did everything to be with her. He went to cut Athey hair and shave his facial hair when needed. The love her had for her was unexplainable and unjustifable , she was the person he really want. “ You and I will be forever, just don’t nobody knows.” Jayber had a feeling that Mattie and him will always be married in his head but that was only his imagination. He had always wanted to be with her since they were little kids, he fell in love with her walking home from school having a conversation. Mattie look at Jayber as a friend who she can depend on, but Jayber did not see it that way. “ Mattie was a grown woman in love, and they had to let her go, with their blessings, enduring what could not be helped.” This shows that Mattie was in love with Troy even though he did mess up, and she still loves him, but Jayber will always love her. Jayber is so indeterminate in love with her, he went to shave Athey whenever she needs him to, when Athey got sick real bad and could not do it himself. Jayber cared for the people he knew, so he did what they wanted him …show more content…

“And maybe, if I had been destined to it or called to it strongly enough, it might have been for me.” Jayber was hoping that aunt Cordie and uncle Othy did not die during the winter season but there was nothing he could do when they got but take care of them both. “ By “bachelor” I mean, as was generally meant, a man old enough to be married who was not married and who had no visible chance to get married.” He wanted to marry Mattie Chatham, but she was married to Troy, and she thought Troy was the one that made her dreams come true. “ Maybe they had taken notice of my habit of keeping the shop open at night as long as people was there.” As long as people stayed at the shop after closing, hoping Jayber wanted them to stay for company. When everybody left Jayber, he was hoping for an impel and to start his own family. Jayber was looking to start a fresh new way, but he could not because he want to live the rest of his life with her. He moved along the riverside bank to be to himself, in a house that a friend had gave him with no rent. Being left alone, with nowhere to call home was the saddest thing could happen to anyone. “ By then I had no living relative, or none who was known of me.” In Port William, Jayber did not have a family because they all had died during the winter season. Jayber had taught himself how to do everything he needs to know to survive, therefore he taught himself how to be a

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