The Theme Of Love In Aphra Behn's To Lysander

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Aphra Behn’s, “To Lysander” is like a diary entry from a woman to a man, who has no intentions of returning the love that is being sent to him. Throughout the entire work there is a pattern of words that force the reader to assume there is the emotion of bitterness and discontent in the poets purpose. She has fallen in love with this man who she refers to as, “Lysander,” who never truly loves her, outside of the bedroom. Behn uses all thirteen stanzas to convey the idea that love is a natural thing when it flows equally from both sides, but if it is anything short of that, then the smitten one soon becomes a slave to the grip of loves power. Behn may have started out as a lover for Lysander but quickly becomes like a prostitute. In the first line of the first stanza she writes, “Take back that Heart, you with such Caution give.” In order to take something back, you must first give it away. This particular word, “back” shows that at some point, in some manner, she did receive his heart and is now pleading for him to reverse what he has done. The word “heart” signifies a true love relationship, one that is, “Unfeigned and True” (9). The word “Caution” is significant because it brings a level of secrecy to whatever relationship these two have or have had before, or at the …show more content…

Lysander is a prideful, arrogant and controlling lover for two women. The words Behn chooses instantly gives the impression of unnatural. Commerce is business, and business is serious. Behn feels like a victim of a love that she gave but never received in return. With the help of deductive reasoning, it’s easy to see why she does what she does. By allowing him to at least want her for her body, she receives some form of attention and that for a few, “silent hours,” she gets to be the important one to him, even if that makes her a slave to his

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