The Significance Of Relationships In Raymond Carver's Cathedral

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In Cathedral, Raymond Carver shares his characters’ relationships and their inability to understand the significance of their own relationships. The narrator and the blind man known as “Robert” are the two main characters in the story. Carver’s “Cathedral” is narrated by the main character who is ignorant, self-centered and unaware. Robert the blind man, on the other hand, is insightful and understands life. Ironically, he is blind but has a right perspective and is not ignorant. Both characters have feelings for the narrator’s wife. Robert and the narrator have relationship issues, but they both have different ways to solve the problem. The narrator is uncomfortable with Robert spending the night at his house, whereas when Robert met him, …show more content…

To this the narrator said “I wasn’t enthusiastic about his visit […] And his being blind bothered me” (1). This shows the narrator’s ignorance and self-centered character. He was uncomfortable with Robert being blind just because he has never known anyone who was blind. He thought anyone who is blind leads a dull and miserable life. Later in the story when his wife tells him about Beulah Robert’s wife, his first question is “Was his wife a Negro” (3). The tone used by the narrator reveals his racist character. After learning more about Beulah, he felt sorry for Robert because he could not see what his wife looked like. He also mentioned that Beulah could have worn anything she wanted because her husband could not see and compliment her. The narrator, with his words, expresses that he only cares about physical characteristics and is not familiar with the inner beauty a person could entail. When the narrator’s wife is leading Robert in the house, she has a beautiful smile on her face. She enjoys the company of Robert and is jubilant with him. Even when the narrator acted awkwardly and asked disrespectful questions because of his ignorance, Robert replied politely and called him “Bub” as a sign of friendship. This shows Robert’s warm and lively …show more content…

Throughout the story, the narrator repeats the phrase “my wife” which shows that he still loves her even though they sleep in different bedrooms. He is physically attracted to his wife but is unaware of her emotional needs. Whereas Robert’s affection for the narrator’s wife is shown through the way he touched her face when she used to work for him as a reader. He kept in touch with her and exchanged audio tapes. He listened to her and had established a good relationship with her over the years. The narrator is jealous and feels insecure when he notices that his wife cannot take her eyes off of Robert. Both Robert and the narrator love her in very different

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