The Sense Of Love In Robert Hayden's Those Winter Sundays

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Love is? What is love? A question many have pondered on for ages. As children we believe one day our true love will come on a white horse sweeping us off of our feet, and then we will live happily ever after. Then as we grow older and realize the world isn’t full of happily ever afters, but instead the world is real, not a fairy tale. Often times we think of love as just that, only in the sense of a significant other. In “Those Winter Sundays” Robert Hayden shows us a love other than the usual form of love of a man and women. He shows us love in the sense of family and selflessness. William Shakespeare also gives us a picture of love in the sense of a relationship in “Let me not to the marriage of true minds.” Furthermore Hayden shows love though a father getting up every day to go work hard for his family and also heating his house for his family. This type of love in Hayden’s poem is unconditional. Even though he doesn’t get a thankyou from his family he
"I was told that love should be unconditional. That 's the rule, everyone says so. But if love has no boundaries, no limits, no conditions, why should anyone try to do the right thing ever? If I know I am loved no matter what, where is the challenge?" (Gillian Flynn) This is an interesting outlook on love that is completely opposite of what Shakespeare and Hayden portray what love is. This author asks the question of “why should anyone do the right thing ever?” if she knows she will be loved no matter what why wouldn’t you want to break the rules, and live freely, and do whatever you want. However love is not selfish it is selfless and Flynn’s outlook on love is the complete opposite of that. Her point is completely opposite of the love Shakespeare and Hayden describe in their poems. They believe that it is a choice to love someone not an

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