I Know Why The Caged Bird Sings Mayan Relationship

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The most important thing in life is relationships with other people. Every relationship has the power to shape lives, whether it is in a good or bad way. In I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings by Maya Angelou, the main character, Maya, forms a relationship the influences the rest of her life. Maya’s relationship with Mr. Freeman causes desensitizes her and causes pain and confusion. Maya encounter and eschewed relationship with Mr. Freeman, desensitizes her for the rest of her life. Maya feels uncomfortable as a n undeveloped 16 year old, so she thinks about becoming lesbian. Before she does so, she decides to have sex to see if she likes boys. She took her neighbor to a remote area, and she had a unsatisfying experience with him. “He may have sensed that he had been used, or his disinterest may have been an indication that I was less than gratifying. Neither possibility bothered me” (278). Maya’s reaction stems from her rape as a child. She was used to a man using her and then simply walking away. She also directly blamed Mr. Freemen as the cause for her …show more content…

Freeman. She thought that Mr. Freeman truly loved him. She loved his touch that he gave her when she had nightmares. “He held me so softly that I wish he had never let me go” (72). In reality, Mr. Freeman just used her for his sexual pleasures. She did not know the difference between love and sex because of him. She thinks that having sex with will let her know if she’s lesbian. This “experiment” would not have arisen if not for Mr. Freeman. “I decided to take matters into my own hands” (276). Maya is clearly confused on how a proper relationship functions. Maya thinks that it is a better idea to have sex with the boy rather than talk to him first. She sees him and asks immediately, “Would you like to have a sexual intercourse with me?” (277). Maya does not know what she is doing is wrong. Mr. Freeman made it seem like all of this was ok, and no one taught Maya

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