The Loss Of Death In Edgar Allen Poe's The Raven

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There comes a time in a person’s life in which they encounter a tragic event that will change them for the rest of their life. The repercussions of this event can be catastrophic, causing them pain and agony, even sending the person into a deep depression. These events are usually the loss of the persons closest loved one, such as their parents, spouses, or children. Edgar Allen Poe expressed these feelings in his poem “The Raven,” as he is coping with losing his wife Virginia who had tuberculosis. “The Raven” demonstrates that pain from the passing of a loved one will stay with a person forever causing them unhealthy grief and sorrow for the rest of their life.
“The Raven” is one of the most famous poems written by Edgar Allen Poe, and has …show more content…

Growing up I was faced with the hardship that no child should have to go though, having a mother that battled relapsing cancer six different times. Seeing her go through this pain really changed who I was as a person because no matter what I tried to do, I couldn’t stop her pain. Like the narrator in “The Raven,” I spent many nights trying anything I could to distract my thoughts of my mom dealing with this disease. At the age of 25 I was forced to face my worst fear as the disease took my mom’s life. Many questions came to mind after she passed, including my own faith. How could a god torture such a wonderful lady that so many people loved for so many years before finally allowing her to have peace in death. “Is there even a god” came to mind so many times because surely a higher being that created us would never allow this to happen. I would often catch myself looking for superficial things as the narrator did when he was talking to raven to ask the same questions as too will I ever see my mother again, or is she now resting in a better place such as “Balm in Gilead”? Seven years later I’m still left with the same remorse that I had the day my mom passed. There is nothing that I’ve have done to try and ease the pain of losing her that has worked. Every day I wake up to a memory of something that my mom used to do that reminds me just how much I miss her. This event has truly made me a believer that the death of an individual does stay with a person and causes them pain for the rest of their life much to the same effect that Edgar Allen Poe showed in his writing of “The

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