The Lais Of Marie De France Theme

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In The Lais of Marie de France, the theme of love is perhaps the most prominent. Particularly in the story of Guigemar, the love between a knight and a queen brings them seemingly true happiness. The lovers give each other an endless devotion and timeless affection. They are tested by distance and are in turn utterly depressed set apart from their better halves. Prior to their coupling the knight established a belief to never have interest in romantic love while the queen was set in a marriage that left her trapped and unhappy. Guigemar is cursed to have a wound only cured by a woman’s love; he is then sent by an apparent fate to the queen of a city across the shores. The attraction between them sparks quickly and is purely based on desire, …show more content…

The fear that resonates with jealousy is that which is similar to a child having their favorite toy taken away. The true attachment of romantic love should reach beyond lovers taking the place of a security blanket. In Guigemar, the queen is imprisoned by her very jealous husband who would in this way seem not to truly love her. Instead, his authority over her is grounded in his fear of being “cuckolded” (Marie de France 46), thus he is jealous solely due to the anxiety of his image being tarnished. In relation to the desire Guigemar and the queen have for each other there is a moment in which the fear that resonates with jealousy suggests their dance around true love. At last when the lovers are reunited not only does Guigemar not recognize her fully at first, but when he does he defends her like she is his favourite toy. Guigemar declares that he will be in the debt of Meriaduc; whom Guigemar can thank for bringing him his lover. In response Meriaduc says that his declaration is not necessary, but furthermore he expresses authority over the queen when he says “I found her and I shall keep her and defend her against you” (Marie de France 54). Guigemar’s response is by instinct to kill Meriaduc, and with joy Guigemar takes away his prize. The queen is secured to him by his fear of her being taken away and left to someone else’s enjoyment. Desire presented in this manner eludes to the …show more content…

Romantic love transcends desire for another person. Of course, Guigemar and the queen loved each other, but their love differs from being in love. In other words, the love they share is an illusion to being in love. In fact, the curse given to Guigemar doesn’t seem like much of a curse if from it he gains the love of his life. But when the hind sets the curse he says “May you never find a cure…until you are cured by a woman who will suffer for your love more pain and anguish than any other woman” (Marie de France 44). The queen will suffer from the anguish of being lead a stray from true love, but engrossed with a love that is convenient. The hind finishes the curse by saying to Guigemar “you will suffer likewise for her...all those who are in love…will marvel at it” (Marie de France 44). Guigemar will suffer for the queen as he suffers for her, and perhaps all they are to each other is something for those who are actually in love to merely marvel at. For they are blindly suffering for each other by what they are not for each

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