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As people get older, they reminisce about events in their past. Sometimes the memories and stories are happy or funny and other times, they are more serious and sober. Growing old can be both a sad and happy time of life because the elderly are not able to be as active and involved as they once were but they can still enjoy reflecting on many fond memories. They have so many stories to share and lessons to teach. It can be very sad, though, when a person is frustrated and saddened by getting older and just wants to continue living as they have become accustomed. In “The Jilting of Granny Weatherall”, Katherine Anne Porter shows how one elderly woman is in denial about old age, illness, and her impending death.
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When Dr. Harry comes in to check on her, Granny Weatherall’s defiance is apparent when she says to him, “’Get along and doctor your sick.’ While her body is failing, her mind is sharp and she says to him, ‘Leave a well woman alone. I’ll call for you when I want you.” Granny Weatherall is very ill but, in her mind, she believes that she will feel healthy and strong again because her current state is only a temporary condition. She tries to refuse the doctor’s orders and efforts because she feels her condition will pass. However, as the doctor leaves, she is unable to wave goodbye or even keep her eyes open because she is so frail. “She meant to wave good-by, but it was too much trouble. Her eyes close of themselves, it was like a dark curtain drawn around the bed.” Wanting to believe that she will fully recover, Granny Weatherall does not want her daughter, Cornelia, to tell the doctor how ill she really is and that she does indeed need the doctor’s care. She reinforces this …show more content…
Years ago, when she was sixty, Granny “had felt very old, finished” and thought that she was going to die so she went to see them all and said goodbye to her family. This time, however, seems different. Drifting in and out of the present and her physical exhaustion make her feel more uneasy than she had been with Cornelia and the doctor. When reminiscing, Granny seems surprised and sad that her life evolved from a time when she was vibrant and had young children. “Granny wished the old days were back again with the children young and everything to be done over.” However, not all of Granny Weatherall’s youth was enviable. She and her husband, John, lost a daughter, Hapsy. “There, wait a minute, here we are!” John, get the doctor now. Hapsy’s time has come.” Now, at the end of her life, Granny talks about how she sees Hapsy and indication that she is going in and out of heaven by reuniting with her dead daughter. This straddling of life and death makes Granny happy because she missed a lifetime with Hapsy and is now able to be with her and, “It was Hapsy she really wanted.” Hapsy loves Granny Weatherall, her mother, and tells her that she “thought you’d never come” and that she has not “changed a bit.” Unfortunately, the end for Granny
From the very beginning of this story, it came to my attention that Granny continually repeats are "there's nothing wrong with me" and "that's for tomorrow.” This repetition, to me, shows two very important aspects about Granny Weatherall as a person – she’s stubborn and hardworking, yet procrastinates all the time. When she felt death come upon her on her bed that day, she wasn't expecting it. We know this because of the repetition of all that she needs to do and that she'll get it done tomorrow. At the same, who can blame her for not expecting it? I mean, who really expects to die every day they wake up? Sure, one knows they are going to die, but they don’t wake up planning it to happen that day. Aside from that, it stood out to me that Granny Weatherall didn’t fail to mention that she thought she was going to die once before during her sixties. From this near death experience, she somehow, in my opinion, allowed herself to think she was invisible and immortal simply because she managed to survive.
In the story, The Jilting of Granny Weatherall, written by Katherine Porter, Granny Weatherall is a character of depth. Her name is synomonous with her character. Three main qualities of her character are her strength, her endurance, and her vulnerability. Her strength is not so much physical but mental. She lies upon her bed contemplating all that she needs to do. Her daughter Cornelia does not even come close to handling affairs as well as she does in her own mind. In addition, she tell the Doctor Leave a well women alone...I'll call you when I need you. She does not like the patronizing position that she finds herself in. The fact that she has already avoided death once seems to add to her image of strength. As we follow her mental ramblings we obtain insight to her character as a woman that has endured heartache as well as hardship.
In the short stories A Worn Path by Eudora Welty and The Jilting of Granny Weatherall by Katherine Anne Porter, both women overcame several obstacles. In A Worn Path, Phoenix Jackson faced obstacles such as her age, physical challenges, and how others viewed her. Granny faced obstacles such as dying, feeling betrayed by her children, and disappointment in her love life.
In “The Jilting of Granny Weatherall,” the story is read in a lighter fashion. It involves the main character, Granny Weatherall, and her triumph through time and love. Granny fights for love and strength for her kids, despite being “jilted” by George at the alter and the issues and pains that come with that memory. Although Granny married, and had children, she never seemed to live up to the fact of her being “jilted” by George. Death is an idea that both stories start, and end with.
Also, this time around I came to realize that one of Granny's other daughters, Hapsy, who had died at an early age, was being summoned to see her mother before she fell to her fate. Hapsy was her favorite. Although I don't think Granny grasped the concept that Hapsy had passed away a long time ago, she gets the urge to need to see her again when reminiscing of her past. While reminiscing, Granny Weatherall sees a picture of her old fiancé, John, who was supposed to marry her but stood her up at the altar.
“The Jilting of Granny Weatherall,” a short story by Katherine Anne Porter, describes the last thoughts, feelings, and memories of an elderly woman. As Granny Weatherall’s life literally “flashes” before her eyes, the importance of the title of the story becomes obvious. Granny Weatherall has been in some way deceived or disappointed in every love relationship of her life. Her past lover George, husband John, daughter Cornelia, and God each did an injustice to Granny Weatherall. Granny faces her last moments of life with a mixture of strength, bitterness, and fear. Granny gained her strength from the people that she felt jilted by. George stood Granny up at the altar and it is never stated that she heard from him again. The pain forced Granny to be strong.
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It was one of these children, Cornelia, who made her act somewhat bitterly in her last days. With her daughter whispering about her and saying she should be humored at her old age, Granny felt like she had been in some way betrayed. “It was strange about children. They disputed your every word” (584). She felt like Cornelia was treating her like a child. “The thing that most annoyed her was that Cornelia thought she was deaf, dumb, and blind. Little hasty glances and tiny gestures tossed around her and over her head saying, ‘Don’t cross her, let her have her way, she’s eighty years old,’ and she sitting there as if she lived in a thick glass cage” (582).
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