The Importance Of Communication In Homeschooling

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Adler, Rosenfeld, and Proctor divide co-cultures into several different groups. These groups are age, race and ethnicity, sexual orientation, nationality, geographic region, physical disability, religion, socioeconomic status, and activity (Adler, Rosenfeld & Proctor, 2015, p.39). My experiences with communication stem from the many co-cultures that I participate in. One group that defined the way I communicate across different cultures and co-cultures is through my educational background. Homeschooling has given me an interesting set of communication skills. The communication competency techniques that I have learned through my homeschool years, affected my ability to successfully transition to an unfamiliar college setting.
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63). The authors illustrate this point through the story of Ning Chang and her shock over her experiences in an American College. Chang describes how she struggled to change her behavior, according to these new cultural rules (Adler et al., 2015). Even though my transition into the college classroom was nowhere near as difficult as her experience, I was also shocked by some of the behaviors of the students around me. Thus I was feeling what Adler, Rosenfeld, and Proctor refer to in their text as, “adjustment shock” (Adler et al., 2015). This transition, however, was accomplished due to “mindfulness” (Adler et al., 2015, p. 62). “Mindfulness” occurs when someone is “aware…of one’s own behavior and that of others” (Adler et al., 2015). One of the techniques in interpersonal communication is “mindfulness” (Adler et al., 2015). During my homeschool years, I used this technique through watching my siblings and other homeschoolers interact with each other. I experienced this form of communication competence through an unfamiliar classroom setting. In college, I utilized this method by watching my more experienced classmates. Through my surveillance, I learned when and how to enter into a class discussion and appropriate class behavior. This coincides with Berger’s “passive observation” which, ‘involves noticing what behavior members of a different culture use and applying these insights to communicate in ways that are most effective” (Adler et al., 2015, p 63). An example of this occurred in my Spanish 101 class. In my Spanish class each student had to give a speech in Spanish about themselves. I decided to watch some of my other students’ give their speech first, in order to gain ideas and critique these presentations, so that mine could be more effective. Through these forms of observations, I

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