'The Dying Girl That No One Helped'

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Standing Out From the Crowd In today’s society, people are taught to conform to the masses in order to fit in; however, it is imperative that one’s individuality is maintained, as it preserves their identity and encourages uniqueness. For example, in the song, “Outside of a Small Circle of Friends”, Phil Ochs discusses the social norm where people are too afraid to stand out, often times, leading them to pay little to no attention to the wellbeing of others. Instead of adhering to their own judgment and moral values, the person in the song continues to abide by the notions of the rest of the group. In addition, in “The Dying Girl that No One Helped”, Loudon Wainright describes the brutal murder of a young 28 year old women, while over 38 of …show more content…

Yet another example includes the parable entitled “The Ministers Black Veil” written by Nathaniel Hawthorne, where a highly respected minister is looked down upon for wearing a black veil over his face. The minister is aware of the gossip his veil initiates within the town, but continues to wear it despite the opinions of others. The importance of maintaining ones individuality under the pressures of conformity is an idea most pertinent to “Outside of a Small Circle of Friends”, “The Dying Girl that No One Helped”, and “The Minister’s Black Vail”. The song “Outside of a Small Circle of Friends” discusses the importance of individuality by showing the perspective of a person conforming to the rest of society and how they ultimately affect the world around them. For instance, the song states “I’m sure it wouldn’t interest anybody outside of a small circle of friends” (Ochs). This shows that the person in the song is deeply concerned with what others around them may think, and has little regard for their own opinions and moral values. The repetitiveness of this …show more content…

For example, according to Loudon, “For the most part the witnesses, couching in darkened windows like watchers of a late show, looked on until the play was passed their view. Then they went back to bed…” (Wrainright). This insinuates that none of Kitty’s neighbors contacted the police or did anything else to help in the situation until the next morning. If one of the neighbors would have just stood up for Kitty, or even called the police before the murderer returned to finish the job, then she may not have died. In addition, after the incident, one of the witnesses went on to say, “There are people over there who saw everything… And there hasn’t been a peep out of them yet. Not one peep” (Wainright). The reason for this may be that the people are scared to be the first to come and give statements to the police after not having done anything to stop the murder. The witnesses may also be feeling guilty or ashamed after realizing that they had just stood by as their fellow neighbor was killed. It is for this reason that it is so imperative that people not be pressured into conforming, because now all of the witnesses will have to carry the guilt of having not helped for the rest of their lives. Lastly, other witnesses admitted to not wanting to get involved, in the event that they may be taken in as a possible suspect or

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