If you were a parent of a young girl, would you allow her to get judged based off of what she looks like? Unfortunately, this is the harsh reality for young girls all over the country. Not only do parent allow for their child to be criticized by a random person, they usually put the child under a great deal of stress because of the amount of badgering to win. All this pressure and criticism may lead to self conscious issues for these girls in the future. There have been studies performed to show the correlation between physiological issues and beauty pageants, as well as, articles written that warn the public about these effects. On the other hand, there are people that attest to child beauty pageants being harmless and over dramatized on its severity. People stand by the idea that pageants are actually healing to self esteem problems.
Parents play a big role in these pageants and can get carried away with them easily. Pageant parents tend to stress the winning title to their children for various reasons. Dr. Maria Cartwright explains that one possible reason for parents involve
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She even went as far to say that she wouldn’t mind if her daughter participated in one. Garcia feels that it could help boost her daughters self esteem. She continued to express how it's a good hobby for young girls, where they get to feel pretty and make friends. "My daughter is my pride an joy, I would love to show the world her beauty and to praise her for being herself, child beauty competitions would serve as that." (Garcia). I then asked her "But what if she were to lose?" She hesitated and opined that they teach how to lose gracefully, that the child is not going to win every time." I was highly intrigued about her point of view and decided to look more into the pros of child beauty
...as Miss USA and Miss Universe are competitions intended for mature, self-assured women who are capable of making their own decisions. Child beauty pageants, however, ruin childhoods and force them to grow up believing in their looks, rather than in themselves. It is no surprise, that emotional distress plagues the contestants that participate in beauty long after stepping off of the stage; subjecting young girls of any age to judgment and ridicule is not only humiliating but horrific to think that we are sitting back being entertained by their competitive nature. Rather than raising strong, confident girls who want to achieve the best in life; the parents and the hosts of these competitions provide a platform on which little girls are dressed up as skimpy Barbie dolls and paraded around, trying to achieve some form of perfection that shouldn’t exist in little girls.
Saying that all beauty pageants oversexualize young children just isn’t true. It’s important to realize, that natural beauty pageants are hardly taken into account by the public. These pageants focus on the interview, talent and community service aspects of pageants. Competitors are even docked points for wearing make-up. A pageant with rules and standards to prevent the oversexualiization of children, shouldn’t be outlawed due to other pageants that take things too far. Point often overlooked, it is reality shows like "Toddlers and Tiaras" and "Here Comes Honey Boo Boo" that are the ones introducing millions to the pageant world. These shows aren’t accurate depictions of what child beauty pageants are all about. On the positive side, individuals like Anna Berry and her daughter Ashley, long term pageant competitors, consider pageantry a hobby and suggest it’s not all the media makes it out to be. In Berry’s perspective, reality tv shows provide the public with a sensationalized view but fail to reveal the positive aspects and effects that can be seen within young girls who choose to do pageantry as a hobby. "I understand why public perspective tends to be so negative about the competitions, because they are little girls. I wish the public saw more about the experience we get,"
Many mothers who allow their children to participate in beauty pageants would argue that performing in the pageants isn’t as stressful and serious as the television shows portray them. In fact, “the pageant industry promotes this idea by advertising pageants as family affairs that are great for a child’s self-esteem and poise” (Wolfe 445). Also, in an article written by Lise Hilbodt-Stolley, a mother of a pageant princess stated “that while pageants may be ‘politically incorrect’ they are drug, alcohol and gang free” (3). However, many parents push their children to win because they are either greedy for the money and fame that accompanies a win, or are living through their young children because of their own feelings of inadequacy. These same parents who are blinded by the possibility of their baby...
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The pageant world is a place where mothers are able to hide their own insecurities by flaunting how “perfect and lovely” their children are. As shown on the TLC television program Toddlers and Tiaras, the children who would love to live out their childhood instead of spending all of their free time preparing to win pageants are incapable to do so because they have mothers who would much rather see them miserable and winning contests, instead of seeing them with a smile on their face, having fun, and enjoying their childhood with friends and family. Kayla McDowell, a freshman at Stephens College, and pageant critic, addresses “In the end, child beauty pageants force children to grow up much too soon, and they release them into a word they are too young to understand” (n. pag.) Children are being sexualized at a very young age, because in the pageant community, dressing like a ho...
Child beauty pageants have been a part of American society since the 1960’s. These pageants consist of modeling swimwear, evening attire, dance and talent. The young children entered in the pageants are judged on perfection, confidence, capability and looks. Judges would call this “the complete package.” Children are divided into different age groups to make the pageants fair. They are guided by there parents who spend well over 200 dollars for the pageants. Money is spent on fake nails, hair extensions, makeup, clothing, eyebrow waxing, and anything else their parents are willing to do to make their child the best looking. Keep in mind that these little girls range from ages 1-12. The issues with these pageants are that these extremely young girls are beginning to compare themselves to other “prettier” girls, which leads to negative effects in the future.
What comes to mind when the words "child beauty pageants" are spoken? What some people think about is, crazy moms pushing their daughters to win, and little girls dressing and to look like Barbie’s. Is this setting a good example for children? It teaches them that people are only judged by looks, not their personality. Instead the lesson they are learning is that looks are the only thing that matters.
Lights, camera, pouty lips welcome to the four dimensional world of children 's beauty pageants. Over the years, child pageants have become a hot topic gaining a great deal of delight from numerous people around the world. From having a strong standing, ongoing fan base that keeps the hit TLC TV show Toddlers and Tiaras; on air to having some of Americans ' favorite beauty queens making guest appearances on shows such as the Ellen Show. Regretfully, the idea of putting an end to child pageants has become somewhat of a hotter topic than the pageants themselves. People often put down what they do not understand why dress a child like that? Why all the make-up? What some do not seem to understand is that there are advantages to being a beauty
When one looks back at their childhood, what pops into their head? For most people their response would be playing with dolls, going outside, or having sleepovers, but for others that isn’t reality. Britney, an eight-year old girl from California, spent her childhood getting Botox and competing in child beauty pageants. According to her mother, Britney had been complaining about wrinkles and agreed to trying Botox. This sounds absolutely crazy, but it is not uncommon. Over 250,000 kids participate in beauty pageants each year (Lindsey). These children, who start competing as early as age 2, are being judged on their looks, capability, perfection, and confidence. The controversies over these pageants have erupted in the past few years because of TLC’s reality show, Toddlers and Tiaras (Nussbaum). Many believe it is not right for young children to parade around on stage wearing make-up and inappropriate clothing, while others believe it builds confidence in children. Despite what people who are pro child beauty pageants say, these pageants can have major effects on the kids participating in them. One may argue that these girls gain much more than they lose, but in the end the negative affects far outweigh the positives.
The lights are intensely bright as they reflect off the stage, leaving numerous loud, edgy mothers in dim luminosity behind them. Six year old Cindy pounces into the rays of the spotlight with a sham smile, flaunting her rehearsed dance, facial expressions, and postures. She finishes with a brilliant beam and pose, thinking of how much she has gone through to be on that stage: the eye waxing, hair dying, extreme dieting, fake teeth, layers of make-up, clouds of hairspray, extensions that give her headaches throughout the day, and the hours of practice she is forced to execute. Up to three million child beauty contestants experience this scenario per year (O’Neill). Glitz beauty pageants exploit young children, teaching them that self-worth is in physical beauty only, while natural beauty pageants teach child contestants that natural beauty and personality is most important, encouraging them to be confident in who they are. Child contestants should not be allowed to compete in glitz beauty pageants; they should only be allowed to participate in natural beauty pageants, which promote healthy competition for contestants.
Heller, E. (2011). SOME PARENTS HAVE WELL-INTENTIONED BUT MISGUIDED IDEAS ABOUT CHILD BEAUTY PAGEANTS. states news service, 1.
" In the end, children’s beauty pageants are essentially harmful to both young girls safety and minds. It may not happen to some, but most of the young girls that compete in beauty pageants seem to have a bit of an attitude towards their parents and other people who will not cooperate with them.... ... middle of paper ... ...
Many young girls are forced to wear preposterous outfits and enormous amounts of makeup that deny them of their innocence at a young age. Beauty contests are meant more for adult women who are mature enough to understand all that’s going on and can handle losing competitions to the other contestants. Children should not be able to compete in pageants because of the harmful effects on self-confidence and character. Some people think they are good and some do not agree that they are good. (Leo, 2014)
Beauty pageants have long been a form of entertainment, exhibiting beautiful women with ideal bodies competing with their talent and their looks. Many pageant moms involve their daughters in children’s pageants to help them improve their social skills, exercise their talents, and boost their self-esteem. Although the pageants may seem like harmless competition with benefits, research shows that they may be doing the young beauty queens more harm than good. “...the girls are receiving conflicting messages: In order to win, the girls must show a unique personality, but they must also act and dress in a hyper feminine manner and conform to the pageant world 's ideal standard of beauty and narrow set of conventions.” (University of Kansas,
Parents of the pageant world dont always understand how provocative and wrong it is to dress their children up in show outfits or giving the child additives to make them look better. Sadly, some parents find this ‘cute’ or ‘fun’. They don't seem to understand how doing this to their children can change their attitudes in a negative way as they grow up. For example, some parents have dressed their children up as Dolly Parton, the ‘street walker’ from pretty woman, and much more. A pageant mom quoted this “I’d rather she be perfect and have a little frozen face. Some people say her eyebrows look a little pulled already but they look striking” (Child Beauty Pageants are Abuse). This type of behavior from a parent should not be acceptable. Another pageant mom who is a trained beautician said this “I’ll make her frown before injecting, which helps identify a potential wrinkle.” (Child Beauty Pag...