Summary Of Thought On Hijab By Carrie York Al Karam

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Thought on Hijab by Carrie York Al Karam stood out to me as well. In Thought on Hijab, the readers learned about the misconception about the hijab. She stated how when many see a girl in a veil, the girl would be expected to be a good girl, but if a Muslim girl is not wearing a hijab then she would get the misconception that she is a bad Muslim. She explained that despite what people believed about a girl that doesn’t wear it isn’t actually true. She stated how she knew women who wore a hijab that was the complete opposite of what society views them as. She saw women that wore hijabs and did not pray, gossiped and was basically promiscuous, which was the complete opposite of what society perceived a Muslim woman in a veil to …show more content…

Yvonne talks about her journey through high school and her battle with the hijab. She just wanted to fit in and for guys to pay her attention. She felt as if wearing her hijab would prevent her from having the high school experience like other teenagers had. She wore her hijab faithfully, until one day her favorite teacher told her she looked messy and would not get a job wearing a hijab. Those words were enough for her to not wear the hijab, well not wear it at school. She thought if she removed the hijab, that guys would pay her attention, but that was not the case and made her more self-conscious. It was not until she met a guy that showed interest in her, that she did not feel ugly and thought it would not have happened with the hijab on. At first, I do not think that anyone should change themselves to fit, but I could relate to her. When I was in high school I had thick glasses, did not dress like other guys did not show interest in me. I just wanted to fit in with the others and thought that if I have gotten rid of my glasses then boys would show interest in me. When I got rid of my glasses, I begin dating and like Yvonne stated, I thought it would not happen unless I changed something about myself. It is sad that us girls changes ourselves sometimes for other and to fit …show more content…

Shah, tells a story about a woman and her journey after the hijab. She started off by saying that her dreams that she had were different from the typical stay-at-home Pakistani woman, but her dreams had to change a bit when she was 18 and had an arranged marriage. She was able to go to college and her and her husband became full-time workers, but when their son turned seven she started to reflect on her life. She begins studying Islam and after 12 years of marriage, she decided that this wasn’t how she wanted to live. She felt as if she was living the life of a hypocrite and did not want to lose herself or her son in the process. She began getting involved in her religion and deciding to wear a hijab. The hijab opened her eyes to things that she wouldn’t have done if she didn’t start getting involved in her faith and wearing her hijab. Her hijab gave her strength and a voice she never knew she had. This story was an interesting story about a woman finding herself, I can relate because I am currently on a journey to become who I am meant to be. My daughter is four and it wasn’t until this last year that I decided to try to live for me and what makes me happy. I have started getting involved in my faith, but I am still not there yet. I just wonder if when an individual finds comfort in their religion, is that when things become clearer and opportunity awakes. Overall I enjoyed reading this essay, it makes me want to get more involved

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