Singled Out By Parents

One huge difficulty with trying to be a good parent, is the number of things that are passed on without even trying to pass them on. All people have personality traits, and they seem to be passed on to their children without any effort at all.

What you face in life is an interesting mix of everything about you blended together. As interesting as this is with only one person, what will it be like with a spouse and children added in. No matter what the difficulty level faced by spouses, partners, or parents, there is no reason to make any changes. Taking your own life and mixing it with another, and adding in children and experiences is what makes life a good thing.

Parents with more than one child, make their family dynamics become something complicated. An important topic to discuss is children being singled out by parents as favorite, or even least favorite. Sometimes, as a human being, you instantly like a person, or the opposite, and the same might be true for your children.

The number one job or responsibility of parents is to make sure their children feel loved and wanted. When you realize that you have been showing one child favoritism over others, you need to take cautious steps to repair the situation.

In just about everything, children learn from their parents. Children learn pretty early how each parent reacts to situations, so they know how to work them against each other. Since children tend to mimic or emulate the only thing they have been exposed to, it makes sense that some of your behaviors are passed right along to them. Having parents who are always setting a positive example, is better than most children ever get. Things happen, no matter how hard you try to keep everything running smoothly. Children are pretty understanding when they know what is going on, especially if it is out of the