She’s Come Undone by Wally Lamb

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Before taking this course, I always looked at films and read books just as the average person does; interesting plot and how long will it hold my interest, but this course gave me an entire different perspective when watching films and reading books. Now that I have taken this course and have watched the required films, the most important thing when watching other movies and reading books, is the meaning behind each scene and how they relate and affect our world. For this paper, I will discuss a book that I read a long time ago, which is She’s Come Undone by Wally Lamb and how this book relates to this course.
She’s Come Undone is a story about a girl named Dolores Price. In this book, the author takes you through Dolores’ life, starting from age four until the age of forty. In this book, Dolores had a very rough life overall, from dealing with issues of her father leaving, being raped by her neighbor, having a mother who is mentally ill, and even her sexual orientation. As I read the book, I believed that she was doomed from the beginning and would never be able to overcome all of those tragedies completely. As a coping mechanism, Dolores sat in front of the television and ate her life away, and as she neared adulthood she was 250 pounds. Since Dolores stayed home and ate food for all of those years, it was easy for me to realize that she would have a hard time interacting and relating with other people as she entered college in Pennsylvania, which was indeed a major issue she faced along with her mother dying before she did so. With all the weight she carried, she attempted suicide. After this failed attempt, she was admitted to a mental hospital where she began to sort through all of the issues she faced during her life with t...

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...eed advice or someone to tell them what they should do, but instead, they need someone to just give them attention and allow them to speak about the things that bother them openly. Both this film and book relates to my person life because as I have mentioned throughout the course discussions, I lost a friend a few months ago to suicide and it is indeed a serious matter. I sometimes think that if I would have paid more attention to some of the hints he gave or just listened to him while he vented without speaking, and maybe he would be here today. She’s Come Undone and Harold and Maude have taught me that life isn’t easy, but you have to keep your head up and press forward in life. They have also taught me that I should be more like Dr. Shaw and Maude and be there for my friends, without always trying to give advice because sometimes they just need a listening ear.

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