Sandra Cisneros Never Marry A Mexican

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Never Marry a Mexican The American writer with the Mexican roots Sandra Cisneros often uses Spanish into her writings. She substitutes English words by Spanish when she feels that Spanish better convey meaning. Cisneros’s ability to speak two languages gives her a unique position. She can tell not just her stories but also of those around her. From the words of the author, “if I were asked what it is I write about, I would have to say I write about those ghosts inside that haunt me, that will not let me sleep, of what which even memory does not mention” (Roberson 62). This paper focuses on a short story Never Marry a Mexican and explores the reasons for such a provocative statement.
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Thus, from very young years Clemencia saw that having an affair in not a happy marriage was normal. She turns herself into a strong woman that treats men the way men treat women under the machismo way. Cisneros’s heroine thought she had a control, “you’re nothing without me. I created you from spit and red dust” (Cisneros 75), but, in reality, it was an illusion. The disappointment in the relationships and marriage formed Clemencia’s stereotyped character, “not a man exists who hasn’t disappointed me, whom I could trust” (Cisneros 69). A young woman always became a witness of infidelity. The main reason for that, “I’ve helped them to it” (Cisneros 68). The collapse of hopes for a true love, a happy family provoked Clemencia to disrupt her anger on the masculine. Thus, she started to use men, “borrowed. That’s how I had my men” (Cisneros 69), but she could never find a man, “I could trust to love” (Cisneros 69). Basing on the memories about her family, mother’s behavior and on her personal experience, Clemencia made a decision, “I’ll never marry. Not any man…Not because I couldn’t….Marriage has failed me” (Cisneros 69). From Clemencia’s words, “Mexican, Puerto Rican, Cuban, Chilean, Colombian…I don’t care. Not men I

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