Safe Haven Feminist Theory

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Nicholas Sparks’ Safe Haven is a very suspenseful novel written from an anti-feminist perspective, in a way that portrays the belief that a woman cannot survive without a man; Sparks uses the main character of the novel, Katie, to be the female of interest in this area. Initially, Katie’s husband, Kevin, is an alcoholic, abusive policeman that she wishes to flee from. Once she finally gets up the courage to leave him, she runs away to a small town, Southport, on the opposite side of the country; since Kevin is employed as a law enforcement official, he has access to exclusive equipment and information and he is able to stalk and find her. Once Kevin finds her, he realizes that she has already fallen in love with another man, Alex, which infuriates …show more content…

Women cooked, cleaned, sewed, and even held light jobs (working in a mill), while men held jobs in heavier industries (railroad, steel, mining, etc.); however, a woman would not be as well compensated as a man would be and she could not obtain a high education because all colleges were closed against her. To fight for women’s equality, women such as Elizabeth Cady Stanton, Lucy Stone, and Susan B. Anthony led feminists’ revolts, and after a long period of time, white women were granted the same rights as men (Hymowitz and Weissman). This is an important part of history for women, because without it, we would be unable to obtain a high education, have a career, and support …show more content…

Beginning as a young woman and going through her death, these are the things that single women find important: Grounding (in the home, neighborhood, career, finances, and social life), Friendships (maintaining close female friendships, and even forming new friends), Basic Needs (for daily contact, security, touch, rituals, enhanced use of free time), Sexual Feelings (acknowledging them, numbing them, transitioning between), Children and Other Forms of Nurturance (making a decision about children, nurturing yourself and others, and being nurtured), Grieving (accepting the ambiguity, grieving lose dreams, separating her grief from her family’s grief), Making Peace with the Parents (teaching them to treat you as an adult, resolving old issues, accepting their positive traits and ignoring the rest), and Old Age (having a positive image of yourself, preparing financially for old age, maintaining friendships, considering living options, preparing your living will for your death/burial) (Lewis and Moon). It seems as if single women wish to live a fulfilling life while taking care of themselves, because they are

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