Romeo And Juliet Philia

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Humans have many ambitions in life, yet most people’s ambitions fall into one spectrum. This spectrum? Love. People often express their desire for love, yet don’t realize that love is carried with them throughout their lives. In today’s society, ‘love’ is a commonly used term to describe a relationship based on affection for another person. However, love has many levels of complexities. Ancient greeks recognized the various forms love can take. Some of which include eros, storge, and philia. William Shakespeare, in his classic drama “Romeo and Juliet,” and other authors use eros, storge, and philia to explore the complexities of love and its effects.

Eros, defined as an intimate, romantic love, is often what comes to mind when one speaks of …show more content…

Philia is considerably a platonic love, a love where physical attraction is not necessary. Shakespeare doesn’t fail to incorporate philia in “Romeo and Juliet”: “Why, is not this better than groaning for love? Now art thou sociable. Now art thou Romeo” (2.4.75-76). Prior to this quote, Romeo and his friend Mercutio took part in a playful banter between each other. What Mercutio intends to say is that Romeo in a way has matured, he often spent his time in distress over his unrequited love with Rosaline. Now that he has moved past that, Romeo is now what Mercutio believes to be the “true” Romeo. This is a form of philia considering Mercutio’s relationship with Romeo. Mercutio mentions his friend’s new attitude with a sense of admiration, praising him for being able to trade his tendencies of moping for being able to exert his playfulness. Overall, Mercutio cares for Romeo and wishes for him to be happy. Along with Shakespeare, William Golding’s “Lord of the Flies” has its share of philia. He writes, “Ralph tried indignantly to remember. There was something good about a fire. Something overwhelmingly good. ‘Ralph’s told you often enough,’ said Piggy moodily. ‘How else are we going to be rescued?’” (Chapter 10). To summarize the plot of “Lord of the Flies”, a group of young boys survive a plane crash and are stranded on an island together. At this point of time, the boys have broken off into their own separate tribes. Ralph, who initially assumed leadership, is undergoing a mental crisis and is having trouble recalling things he would usually value. Piggy, his companion, fills in the blanks for him. Although they were unlikely to become friends in the beginning of the story, the two later bond through circumstances that isolate them. How does this relate to philia? The pair’s relationship is based upon their shared goodwill. While the other boys on the island choose to spend

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