Responding To Others

Listening to others is important because:

• It shows that we care about what they are saying.

• It is respectful.

• We can learn things.

Responding to others is important because:

• It lets them know that we listened to them.

• It is respectful.

MATERIALS

• The Mixed-Up Day storybook

• Communication Do’s and Don’ts cards

• Objects to use as microphones (One per buddy pair)

It is important to listen carefully, think about of what the person has said, and then respond.

It is fair to take turns speaking and listening.

GRADE 1-2

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Listening and Responding to Others 3.1

THINK ABOUT THIS...

• Have you ever found yourself not listening to a student, or colleague? In which situations do you notice this happening?

• Have you ever found yourself listening

RESEARCH AND RELEVANCE

The ability to listen to others in a thoughtful and careful manner is critical for children’s social and academic learning, allowing them to gain information and develop vocabulary, comprehension, and oral language skills. Although young children make increasing strides in their abilities to self-regulate—including paying attention and controlling their bodies—there are a number of factors that can make it challenging for them to listen carefully. Environmental challenges include external distractions such as noise and movement, which cannot always be controlled, and internal challenges include comprehension difficulties, a lack of motivation or interest, or competing interests. It is important to provide them with many opportunities to practice focused, attentive listening and to help them monitor their own listening behavior and comprehension.

Responding to others is an often-overlooked communication skill. In addition to listening attentively, it is important for children to learn that it is appropriate and respectful