Problematic Relationships In Raymond Carver's Cathedral

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Problematic Relationships Within Short Stories There are many times where male/female relationships are depicted ending in happiness with the two lovebirds riding off into the sunset. This idea of a perfect relationship, although it is great for love stories and bestselling novels, is simply not practical and rarely ever occurs in reality. In fact, it is more common to see the exact opposite of a perfect relationship in reality; with divorce rates rising and the growing number of people in unhappy relationships, it seems as if the idea of a perfect relationship drifts further and further away. Often there are relationships that breed problems. These problems are depicted through the relationships in Raymond Carver’s “Cathedral,” Isabel …show more content…

This disconnect is apparent throughout the short story, especially when the wife and the protagonist are talking about his wife’s blind friend, Robert, coming to visit. In this passage the unnamed protagonist nonchalantly states that he could take the blind man bowling. The protagonist’s wife responds to his crude comment with, “If you love me, you can do this for me. If you don’t love me, okay. But if you had a friend, any friend, and the friend came to visit, I’d make him feel comfortable.” (Carver 107). The disconnect is clear because after the wife asks the protagonist to do this one thing for her out of love, the protagonist brushes off what she said and explains he would never have a blind friend staying at their house. The protagonist is most responsible for creating the problem within their relationship; his jealousy causes the disconnect experienced between the two. The protagonist spends much time reflecting on his wife and her past relationship with her ex-husband and her platonic relationship with Robert; therefore, showing his jealousy at her level of connection in her other relationships. When the protagonist talks about his wife's relationship with Robert, he uses short, disconnected sentences. This shortness of thought exemplifies, as Robert Clark notes, “The narration is driven by jealousy: the speaker has not achieved a meaningful connection with his wife the way Robert has” (Clark 109). This disconnect promoted by underlying jealousy is eventually resolved when the protagonist has an epiphany. As the protagonist is sitting with Robert watching a documentary about cathedrals, Robert asks the protagonist to explain what a

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