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Why People Do The Things They Do Acceptance. It’s all about acceptance. Teenagers need to be popular. They are afraid of rejection. They just need to be accepted by everyone else so they can feel wanted. “Most teenagers feel insecure about who they are are still unsure of themselves. The safest way for them to feel accepted is to be associated with the popular clique.” Being socially accepted is something that teenagers long for. Being popular is a shortcut. If a person tells the school that they should wear black on Monday, then teenagers will wear black just to be like all of the others. But, only a small amount of teenagers will wear white, while everyone else is wearing black just to be different. Being popular helps people receive positive …show more content…

“Popular teenagers feel that by associating themselves with particular music, clothes, culture, they’re rebelling. This makes them ‘savages’.” There are five main cliques. There is the popular clique. The popular clique is made up of the girls and guys who play popular sports like soccer, basketball, lacrosse and football. Teens who are in these cliques are fake. They might even purposely join soccer, basketball, football or lacrosse even if they don’t like those sports just to be accepted. There is the athletic clique. This athletic clique is made up of the girls and guys that talk about sports all the time. Sometimes, they exaggerate that they are stronger than they really are. There is the smart clique. This smart clique is made up of the girls and guys that are A students. You could imagine them carrying around an encyclopedia everywhere. There are stereotypes that they wear glasses and have braces, but that’s not necessarily true. There is the weird clique. This weird clique is made up of the girls and guys that people consider unintelligent or awkward. They usually aren’t well-liked and they get made fun of. There is the troublemaker clique. This troublemaker clique is made up of the girls and guys that are F students. They usually get in trouble a lot and might even get suspended or expelled from

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