Oppression In Bread Givers, By Sara Smolinsky

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The autobiographical novel, Bread Givers, is the story of a young girl Sara Smolinsky growing up in an immigrant Jewish household with her sisters Bessie, Fania and Mashah along with her parents Reb and Shena. Sara’s father, Reb, refuses to work to support his family and instead spends most of his days reading holy books. In turn, the neglect for his family has left his daughters to find means to provide for themselves. Throughout the novel there can be seen a common theme of oppression from Reb and other men. Additionally, other themes such as independence, self-sustenance, the struggle to find happiness and duty versus desire can be seen within the novel.
In the novel there can be seen a new age in the United States where women are branching …show more content…

Sara’s father seems to be a man that unintentionally brings down the women in his family but does this because of the way society is. At the end of the novel it ends with, “It wasn't just my father, but the generations who made my father whose weight was still upon me” (297). Sara acknowledges that the society that her father was influenced by is the reason he acts in such a way. Sara advocates for women and fights against the injustices presented to women throughout this time and especially for her sisters. When she is eating at a restaurant she sees that she is given less food because she is a woman. Her sisters and mother are belittled by her father and his obsession with reading holy books leads to his self-destruction and that of his wife and children. His religious background leads him to believe that women are inferior and only have meaning because of men, “Women had no brains for the study of God's Torah, but they could be the servants of men who studied the Torah. Only if they cooked for the men, and washed for the men, and didn't nag or curse the men out of their homes; only if they let the men study the Torah in peace, then, maybe, they could push themselves into Heaven with the men to wait on them there” (9). He claimed that women had no place in heaven and that the current and the next world had no place for women …show more content…

This is where the theme of duty versus desire played a huge role with the internal struggle Sara faced. In the beginning Sara left and refused to visit her family as she thought they would only hold her back from progressing in her growth. As the novel progressed, six years after Sara leaves she received word from her family that her mother is ill and dying. When she arrives her mother asks her to take care of her father when she passes and although it may burden Sara, she agrees. The obligation felt to her family bring Sara back to the earlier centuries where women put their families first and then themselves. Prominently seem in in the 18th and 19th centuries women needed to care for the men in their families even if that meant it would not be the best option for themselves. Sara was not the only one from her family that was held back from happiness because of family. Bessie falls in love with a man, Berel, and when he proposes to her to marry him she refuses in an attempt to stay loyal to Reb. Mashah also experiences something similar to her sister Bessie since the man she loves, Noah, refuses to be with her as he attempts to remain loyal to his

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