“Fear is the path to the dark side, fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suffering” -Yoda. Fear, anger, hate and suffering are common traits for Okonkwo throughout the novel Things Fall Apart, written by Chinua Achebe. The reasons Okonkwo has these traits is because of his father Unoka. Unoka was a very laid back man who was often lazy but oddly happy all the time. Okonkwo is embarrassed of his father because of how his father was when he was growing up. Okonkwo’s actions throughout the book are mostly because of his father and his fear of becoming a man like Unoka. Okonkwo's fear of being like his father affects him and his family throughout the book in both positive and negative ways. Okonkwo’s fear of being like his …show more content…
Okonkwo is viewed as a little heartless throughout the book. For example, Okonkwo said, “I will not have a son who cannot hold up his head in the gathering of the clan. I would sooner strangle him with my own hands” ( 24). Okonkwo seems heartless because of how seriously he takes respect. He feels everybody should look up to him or respect him which causes him to do things he should not do. Okonkwo does not understand that being abusive is affecting his family in negative ways. Okonkwo tries to be a good father and husband, but he feels that beating his family when they do wrong will help them be better. Okonkwo's actions when he is angry is what brings negative aspects to him and his family. His anger causes him to be banished from his own village for seven years which made Okonkwo's hard work to be high up in his homeland pointless because he has to start all over again. Okonkwo’s fear of being like his father affected him and even his family in a lot of negative ways throughout the book which caused many conflicts/problems for Okonkwo, his three wives and
Okonkwo is known throughout Umuofia to be extremely masculine. He rarely shows signs of fear or weakness. This is because Oknokwo promised himself he would be the complete opposite of his father Unoka. Unoka had passed away ten years prior to when the story takes place but he has always been remembered as a weak, lazy, poor man who could barely provide for his family. He was always in debt and didn't care to work, he would play his flute all day everyday if he was able to. "People laughed at him because he was a loafer, and they swore never to lend him any more money because he never paid back" (5). Unoka was the laugh of the town and Okonkwo would never allow himself be that.
Okonkwo is on two ends of a stick. Sometimes he can be shown to be a caring, sympathetic character, but others he is shown as a ruthless person that is very unsympathetic person. Okonkwo is a man of action that would rather solve things with his fists rather than talking it out. He is a great wrestler hailing from the Umuofia clan that has thrown Amalinze the Cat. Okonkwo is also a very good farmer, where he has been able to grow two barns worth of yams. He is someone that doesn’t know how to control themselves when they get angry as he will then resort to violence. Okonkwo’s family relationships make him a sympathetic character because of his caregiving nature and hospitality and he is shown to be an unsympathetic character because of his
... his words that he committed a great evil; we live in peace with our fellows to honor our great goddess of the earth without whose blessings our crops will not grow. You have committed a great evil (Achebe 30). Okonkwo displays another fit of anger during the feast of the new yam, when he almost killed his second wife with a gun because she cut a few leaves off the banana tree to wrap some food. Without patience to discern her explanation; she was beaten mercilessly and almost got killed. Okonkwo lacked a sense of affection towards his family, which can be linked to his fear of weakness. He repudiates any show of emotion or patience in order not to appear weak. His household lived in a perpetual fear, he never gave them the opportunity to get close to him without been scared of him, and this really had a great effect with the relationship he had with his household.
Okonkwo’s first and most distinctive flaw is his fear of failure. Many people would agree that this flaw is driven by the fear of becoming his father, but Okonkwo takes this fear too far. Okonkwo’s father, Unoka, was known for being a very lazy and carefree man. He also had notoriety of being “…poor and his wife and children had barely enough to eat.” (Achebe 5). A big tradition in Umuofia is having a father who is supposed to teach his children right and wrong. In Okonkwo’s case, these lessons had to be self-taught. Okonkwo had to commit to his own understandings of what defined a “good man” and to him that was the exact opposite of his father. Because of his fear to be seen as weak, Okonkwo even murders a child that calls him father. Ikemefuna was sent to live with Okonkwo because someone was murdered in a nearby village. An example of Okonkwo’s ill-hearted actions are shown in the following quote: “As the man drew up and raised his machete, Okonkwo looked away. He heard the blow. He heard Ikemefuna cry, ‘My father, they have killed me!’ as he ran towards him. Dazed with fear, Okonkwo drew his machete and cut him down. He was afraid of being thought weak.” (Achebe 61). The fact that he kills Ikemefuna shows that his reputation is more important than the life of a child. Okonkwo’s fear permits him to receive more respect from his tribe, but only because it inclines him to do better than anyone else.
For instance, because Okonkwo despises his father’s characteristics, he does everything he can to avoid them. Therefore, Okonkwo becomes a pillar of strength and stability in
Okonkwo’s fear of becoming like his lackadaisical father is an internal conflict between Okonkwo and his father. “Okonkwo’s fear was greater than these. It was not external but lay deep within himself, lest he should be found to resemble his father.” (Achebe 13). Okonkwo tries to live his life, ideally from his father.
Okonkwo, from Things Fall Apart, was determined not to be like his father. He focused on what was important to him. In his life he wanted to be known as a strong man. He used his father as an inspiration to be a better person. “[Okonkwo] was a man of action, a man of war. Unlike his father, he could stand the look of blood” (Achebe 10). Okonkwo was determined to become a man of action, he took his father's example and used it as a guideline to remind himself that he wants to be strong. Okonkwo had a rough childhood and wanted to grow away from it. By using his father's example, and staying determined, he was able to focus in
In these few chapters that we read, we have already learned a lot about Okonkwo, his life, and how he shows sympathy to some, but to others he is heartless. Okonkwo is other wise known as an unsympathetic person. Okonkwo is a clan leader of umuofia who holds many titles and is well known among his people. Okonkwo's daily life consists of tending to the three yam farms he has produced and to make numerous offerings to numerous gods and to help himself and his family. Okonkwo's personality is hard driven, since his father did not provide for him and his family Okonkwo had to start man hood early and this led him to be very successful in his adulthood, Okonkwo is an unsympathetic character who only shows sympathy rarely because he believes it's a sign of weakness Okonkwo's family relationships make him a sympathetic character because when his children show signs of manliness or do their jobs right he shows sympathy towards them. He is an unsympathetic character because whenever he get a little mad he has to take his anger out on something and that is usually vented by beating his wife's.
From birth Okonkwo had wanted his son, Nwoye, to be a great warrior like him. His son instead rebelled and wanted to be nothing like Okonkwo. Okonkwo would not change so that his son would idolize him, as he had wanted since his son's birth. He chose not to acknowledge his son's existence instead. This would weigh heavily on anyone's conscience, yet Okonkwo does not let his relationship with his son affect him in the least bit.
Okonkwo is not all that he may seem as there is more than what meets the eye. Okonkwo is the primary protagonist within the book Things Fall Apart by Chinua Achebe. Okonkwo is a cruel yet kind man who has everything yet has nothing, which in turn creates a sympathetic character. A character such as Okonkwo has many facets or masks if you will. Then we have his many influences: the Ibo culture, his father Unoka and of course his own personality.
Since his childhood, Okonkwo has always been ashamed of his father, Unoka. Unoka was rarely able to feed his children, which made Okonkwo scared and embarrassed. When he went out into Umuofia, he found that the villagers had very similar opinions towards his father. As...
It is commonly seen how an individual who is highly regarded to go above and beyond to keep that reputation in place. Likewise, Okonkwo was known for his persistence and high prestige, which is why weakness becomes his greatest fear and causes him to unintentionally exert harm on himself and others. Throughout his life, Okonkwo was seen to constantly place his well respected reputation above everything else, even his own family. Despite his affection for his household, Okonkwo seems to show greater care about others’ opinions about him, which is why he is seen to install fear instead, as it is mentioned how, “His [Okonkwo’s] wives, especially the youngest, lived in perpetual fear of his fiery temper, and so did his little children,” however the author
Their beliefs are completely opposite each other because of Okonkwo's need to fulfill his own pressures and ideal image, which he burdens himself with. Certain characteristics he holds which his father does not is seriousness, determination, and brutality. Okonkwo cannot move on from his past, instead he forces his future to be effected by his past, which results in his emotional separation from others around him. Oknonkwo describes his father as "lazy, improvident and quite incapable of thinking about tomorrow.
Because Okonkwo did not want to follow in his father’s footsteps as a lazy, gentle, and poor man, he decided to create his own legacy. Some may consider this honorable; but as Okonkwo’s character evolves, it is clear that he is crippled by his own desire to escape his father’s shadow. He envisioned his father as weak but his own mindset in turn has weakened him in many areas. This is the narrative in Chinua Achebe’s Things Fall Apart. The generational traits impact the characterizations of each individual in such a profound way. Okonkwo may have hated the legacy his father left behind but there was no where for him to run away from the bloodline that flowed so heavily through him.
Okonkwo was ashamed of him and did everything possible to never end up like his father. When the narrator stated, “With a father like Unoka, Okonkwo did not have the start in life which many young men had. But he threw himself into it like one possessed. And indeed he was possessed by the fear of his father’s contemptible life and shameful death” (pg. 18). The.