My Parents Essay

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My parents seemed to parent me differently than my siblings. Possibly this was due to the divorce and the age difference between my siblings and I. At first my parents were very authoritarian (Harman et al., 2011). They had strict rules and if you disobeyed you were strictly punished. For example, when I was being disciplined I was yelled at, spanked and sent to my room. As I got older things were taken away such as television privileges, computer usage, and home phone or cell phone use. However, as I and my siblings got older my parents parenting style became uninvolved. For instance, when my sisters turned 17 year old, they are twins, they moved to Colorado. One moved to be with an older boyfriend and she persuaded the other sister to come with her so our parents would not say no. Regarding this situation my parents told me, “They are going to do whatever they want no matter what I say anyway. So I let them go.” If I become a parent I want to have a structured home. There will be set chores, set bedtimes, and standard rules. Also I will use time outs as a punishment instead of sending the child to their room or yelling or spanking the child (Harman et al., 2011). …show more content…

First, seeing my parents fight all the time impacted me negatively. In relationships I use to hold back all my feelings and then one day I would blow up and yell at my partner about it. This took a lot of time to work through and stop yelling when a conflict comes up. The other way my parents relationship affected me as a child the way I viewed a good or bad relationship. I did not really understand what a good relationship was for a long time. Therefore, I had conflict issues with previous relationship that were probably a part of the reason for their termination. If I were to have had better relationship role models I might have been able to better navigate my own

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