“My Papa’s Waltz” is a poem by Theodore Roethke reminiscing over a rather bittersweet memory from when he was a youth. The narrative recounts the dangerously rough way his father would dance with him late at night. Roethke’s description of the event gives the feeling that it was unbearable and an unpleasant memory. However, once the reader learns that the author’s father died during Theodore’s childhood, it can be assumed through clues in the poem that the speaker cherishes this memory. “My Papa’s Waltz” presents the idea that death has the power to make amends for past disputes. Throughout the poem the speaker recalls memories of his father’s dancing, and the actions the father committed make him look like a violent and even an alcoholic …show more content…
While none of the lines mention how the kid felt dancing with his father, the majority of them are describing the objective events during one specific dance. If one were to interpret these actions at face value they would imagine a heavily intoxicated man man-handling a child around the kitchen. There are several lines that depict the pain this dance is causing the boy such as “The hand that held my wrist / Was battered on one knuckle;” (9-10) and “My right ear scraped a buckle, / You beat time on my head” (12-13). This evidence is enough to suggest that the father was very hard on the son, but there are inferences that can be made for more proof. The mentioning of the fathers “palm caked hand” (14) is a well-placed hint that the father was a hard worker, which could cause him to be even angrier as a parent, and depending on heavy drinking to relax …show more content…
The poem being written in 1948, making Roethke forty years old, was made at a time when Roethke is older and more able to understand his father’s position. While the actions in the poem appear to incriminate the father, the tone throughout seems lighthearted and playful. The word “Papa” in the title has a connotation to a small child’s loving term for his father. The rhyme and rhythm of the lines give the poem an upbeat, playful mood. This mood gives the poem the feeling that the author is looking back at these memories as hilarious, given tragedy plus time equaling comedy, and is thankful for the time his busy father would spend with him. As a man, Theodore could understand the hard work it takes to provide for a family and the emotional toll it would
The most notable qualities of Theodore Roethke’s “My Papa’s Waltz” are the tone and language of the poem which convey the nostalgia adult author feels thinking about the time spent with his father. In the title narrator’s father is affectionately referred to as “Papa” making the impression that the main character and his father are close. The use of possessive pronoun “my” contributes to the overall impression that the father holds special place in the narrator’s heart. As word “waltz” in the title implies the poem gives account of the festive occasion in which the narrator’s father takes part.
In his recollection, Roethke's father comes home drunk after a hard day of work. The young boy and his father decide to partake in a little dance. While waltzing, the two get a little rambunctious with each other. As a result, some people view this poem with a disdainful-like perception and suppose Theodore wrote the poem with dark thoughts in mind. Rather, despite his father's drunkenness, the young Theodore enjoyed every second of it. There is a strong bond between them that upon careful examination, one can clearly understand in the poem "My Papa's Waltz."
Inevitability at one point in most of our lives we have to deal with some type of hardship. A lot of us have experienced first hand or known someone who has had the unfortunate experience of dealing with a close friend or family member who becomes abusive and aggressive because of drug or alcohol related problems. My Papa’s waltz is a poem that tells the story of a young boy dealing with an abusive father and a broken home. Despite the initial light atmosphere of the poem Theodore Roethke uses strong and powerful language to convey an underlined meaning to their dance. My Papa's Waltz is a poem of fear, all the more horrible because the boy is terrified and hurt by his father, even in play, yet he clings and hangs to him showing how strong he is despite his age and through his actions he illustrates his love and patience for his troubled father.
In the poem “My Papa’s Waltz” by Theodore Roethke, the speaker is reflecting on a childhood experience involving his father. Some people assume that this poem is about a happy relationship between a father and son while other people assume that this poem emphasizes hidden messages of parental abuse. In my
Abuse is a difficult and sensitive subject that can have long lasting effects. These traumatic emotional effects are often intensified if the abuse happens at a young age because children do not understand why the abuse is happening or how to deal with it. There are many abuse programs set up to counter the severe effects which abuse can have. Even more, poets and writers all over the world contribute works that express the saddening events and force the public to realize it is much more real than the informative articles we read about. One such poem is Theodore Roethke’s My Papa’s Waltz which looks carefully through the eyes of a young boy into the household of an abusive father. Robert Hayden’s Those Winter Sundays is a similar poem from the perspective of a young adult reflecting back on the childhood relationship with his father and the abuse his father inflicted. These poems are important because they deal with the complex issues surrounding the subject of abuse and also show the different ways which children react to it. My Papa’s Waltz and Those Winter Sundays are similar poems because they use tone, imagery, and sounds and rhythms to create tension between the negative aspects of abuse and the boys own love and understanding for their father.
Today, people tend to believe that hitting a person is abuse. Although, many people can connect with ¨My Papaś Waltz¨ by Theodore Roethke, the intended audience is himself illustrating a past memory of his childhood. The controversy of the poem is whether itś a good or bad memory. While the subject of “My Papa’s Waltz” has spurred a passionate academic debate from professors, scholars, and students alike, the imagery, syntax, and diction of the poem clearly supports the interpretation that Theodore Roethke wrote “My Papa’s Waltz” to illustrate on a past memory of his drunk and abusive father.
When one becomes a father, he undertakes many responsibilities: setting a positive example, enforcing discipline for misbehavior, overviewing the safety of his children, providing a loving atmosphere, and numerous other tasks. In Theodore Roethke’s poem, “My Papa’s Waltz,” the narrator reminisces on the memories of his “papa” through the metaphor of an aggressive “waltz.” Using descriptions of the father’s actions and the reactions of the mother, Roethke illustrates the situation with carefully selected vocabulary. These actions of the narrator’s “papa” can be interpreted as either positive and loving or as inappropriate and unnecessary. After a brief analysis of the poem, readers might assume that the narrator’s memories of his father reflect
The poem opens with a son talking about his father’s alcoholism, describing that the amount of whiskey his father drank “could make a small boy dizzy” (Roethke) with the effects of alcohol. The figurative dance with addiction is not easy for the boy, but he still “hung on like death” (Roethke), hoping for a brighter outcome. The father and son are in the kitchen, where the amount of the father’s drunken, physical abuse on the child causes pans to fall from kitchen shelves (Roethke). The boy’s mother, however, can only stand to the side and watch the events unfold with a “countenance [that] could not unfrown itself” (Roethke). The boy’s father grabs him by the wrist with a “battered...knuckle” (Roethke). With this interpretation in mind, the cause of the father’s rough hands becomes unclear. His hands could still be rough from a hard day of work, or perhaps his abusive nature has ended with injuries on his hands. The amount of alcohol consumed by the father causes him to stumble, or miss steps, according to the speaker. As the physical abuse continues, the child states he is “still clinging to [his father’s] shirt” (Roethke). This last line hints that, although the father is an abusive drunk, the child still loves his father and clings to this love with the hope that someday things will improve for his
The father moves from side to side like waltzing, but in reality, I believe this is for his drunken condition. The child and the mother are dealing with his father’s alcoholism, which looks that the mother doesn’t care anymore about her family. I can easily perceive the child’s and the mother’s feelings and their unhappiness if instead of spending a great time with him, they are experiencing somehow abandon of the persons who supposed to be the strongest in their family and giving the best sample to them. “Then Waltzed me off to bed” (line 15) and “Still clinging to your shirt” (line 16) these two phrases are highly critical view of the fact that the child still sticks to his father no matter how dangerous his father is the child loves his “papa”. In addition, at the end the child’s hope is that his father changes one day and be with them as a real father unknowing that this is a perpetuated situation and transcending anger for
" Certainly, this small boy's family life has its frightening side, but the last line suggests the boy is still clinging to his father with persistent if also complicated love" (Kennedy and Gioia 668). Although their dance appears to be "comic", Roethke seems to possess "an odd and ambivalent closeness" to his apparently intoxicated father (Balakian 62). Still, even more evidence of these mixed feelings is illustrated in the third stanza. "This love dance, a kind of blood rite between father and son, shows suppressed terror combined with awe-inspired dependency" (Balakian 62).
The poem, “My Papa’s Waltz” by Theodore Roethke, is about a boy reminiscing about an incidence with his father. From the beginning, this poem states the conflict between a father and son involved in a rambunctious dance, but as it continues, the story suggests the dance may actually be a physical altercation. Within the line, “Such waltzing was not easy,” is the proposal this is not a singular incident, but rather a routine ritual between the boy and his father (Line 4). The speaker is an adult recollecting, to himself as the audience, a childhood memory of an incident with his father. As the poem opens, the child recalls his father engaging in act of the drinking whiskey to the extent that the fumes of his breath made him dizzy or lightheaded, as if the adrenaline coursing through his veins from wrestling or struggling with his father wasn’t enough to make him unsteady. The child is hanging on to his father as a way of protecting himself from the assault being inflicted upon him. When the narrator states within the simile, “But I hung on like death,” death symbolizes a force inescapable and not able to release its grasp (3). As the poem continues, the speaker uses the term “romped” to describe the movement within the waltz. A waltz is an elegant, flowing type of dance and one does not “romp” through a waltz. The two participants are causing such a ruckus, the mother’s pans slide off a shelf in the kitchen. As the mother looks on, she is silent with only a frown as an expression of her disapproval. The speaker states his father’s hand “was battered on one knuckle,” suggesting the hand had been injured possibly from another violent incident in the past (10). As the commotion continues, the child is “waltzed” into his bedroom, the ...
My Papa’s Waltz has been compared to a generational litmus test. Depending on what generation the reader was born, could determine how the reader would interpret this poem. Each generation has its own views that have been developed in them for the language used to describe Papa in this poem. The whiskey on his breath and Papa’s hand beating on his head, both sound like a negative connotation. Depending on the experience of the reader, they can either be disturbed by these words or be drawn in closer to the poem. Theodore Roethke loved his father. Not only did he love him, but he idolized him and unfortunately lost him at an early age. This poem is a reflective memorial waltz written in iambic trimeter to honor his father and mother.
Theodore Roethke expresses his past feelings and heartache through his writing especially in “My Papa’s Waltz”. He tries to show the readers a lesson through his work as well. Encouraging kids who are beaten around the world to know that kids are not play toys parents can rough house with. Roethke writes this poem to influence kids to stand up for themselves and what the readers believe in, to show who actually the weak link in the family is, and to have pride in one another. Roethke proves through his writing he is a living figure of a child who was once thought of as nothing, but with hard work and perseverance, came out on top later on in his life. To show this through his writing, Roethke uses vivid imagery in “My Papa’s Waltz” to relate
In the late nineteen forties, Theodore Roethke emerged with a poem that has been the source of much debate. "My Papa's Waltz," is an account of a relationship between son and father. Alas, many readers who are exposed to this piece fail to note the love present in the connection of the characters. In an attempt to illuminate the author's true intention several factors must be examined. After several examinations of Roethke's poem as well as learning of his childhood it is evident that this poem does not suggest an abusive environment, but is an appreciative account of the love and playfulness between the characters. Therefore, a successful interpretation of this poem will look beyond the four stanzas and study not only the history of the writing, but the life of the poet.
“My Papa’s Waltz” by Theodore Roethke writes about a little boy who is about to go to bed, and his father comes home with a strong smell of alcohol on his breath, “The whiskey on your breath / Could make a small boy dizzy;” (Roethke 1-2 ). This shows that the father has been drinking and the smell is so strong he is getting dizzy from it. Even though the little boy dad is drinking he is very happy to be with him. As Roethke points out, “But I hung on like death: / Such waltzing was not easy” (Roethke 3-4). As the little boy and his father continued to dance around the house and have a good time, the little boy’s mother was getting angry at the father. Roethke concludes,” My mother’s countenance / Could not unfrown itself” (Roethke 8-9). Roethke adds, “The hand that held my wrist/Was battered on one knuckle;” (Roethke 9-10). This shows his father is a hardworking man. The work that his father produces makes his knuckles bleed. As they continue to dance the little boy realizes that if he doesn’t keep up with his father’s dancing, his ear scrapes his father’s belt buckle. The father is having such a good time with his son, Roethke adds, “You beat time on my head / With a palm caked hard with dirt” (Roethke 13-14). The father with his filthy hands is playing drums on top of the little boy’s head. Roethke concludes with, “Then waltzed me off to bed/Still clin...