How Does Jane Austen Choose A Mate In Pride And Prejudice

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In Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice, she has specific criteria that her characters follow when choosing their mates. In today’s society, most couples still follow these criteria when choosing their ideal mate. What are these important criteria that Austen’s characters consider when choosing a mate? For Austen, the important criteria that she has for choosing a mate are that couples are personally compatible, they are in love with each other, and they must have a good moral character. Personal compatibility is one of Austen’s criteria for choosing the right mate. Austen shows couples that choose not to marry a mate that is personal compatibility and couples that do. Mr. and Mrs. Bennett are one of the couples that Austen uses to represent …show more content…

In Matthew Schneider article “Card-playing and the Marriage Gamble in Pride and Prejudice” he says, “For many women in the world of Austen’s novels, marriage was synonymous with economic survival.” This is seen in the marriage of Mr. Collins and Charlotte Lucas when Charlotte explains to Elizabeth why she accepted Mr. Collins proposal of marriage even though she does not love him. Charlotte tells Elizabeth, “I am not romantic you know. I ask only a comfortable home…I am convinced that my chance of happiness with him is as fair, as most people can boast on entering the marriage state” (Austen 85). After Elizabeth visits the Collin’s home and sees for herself how their marriage works, Mr. Collin tells her, “My dear Charlotte and I have but one mind and one way of thinking. There is in every thing a most remarkable resemblance of character and ideas between us. We seem to have been designed for each other.” (Austen 142) this reassures Elizabeth that even though the Collin’s marriage is not based on love, they have found a way for their marriage …show more content…

“Genuine love is not founded in caprice; it is founded in nature, on honorable views, on virtue on similarity of tastes, and sympathy of souls” (Teashman). The characters in Austen’s book that do not have a good moral character, such as Lydia and Mr. Wickham, do not end up in a happy marriage. Lydia is a young and immature person with “nothing but love, flirtation, and officers, have been in her head” (Austen 183) while Mr. Wickham moral character is more of a selfish nature. “Wickham's selfishness can be seen most clearly through money. He is the gambler-the man who can be bought. Every move he has made in his life can be traced to the shilling or the pound” (Hall). The Wickham’s marriage does not end up well after all, they still have money problems and do not “have quite money enough to live upon without some help” (Austen 252). An example of how having a good moral character is more important than love, is the relationship of Elizabeth and Mr. Wickham. “Elizabeth does not want to marry a man whom she dislikes” (Gao). Elizabeth starts to fall in love with Mr. Wickham after Mrs. Philip’s supper when she “went away with her head full of him. She could think of nothing but of Mr. Wickham” (Austen 58). However, when she finds out that his true character is not as he represented himself to be she ends her relationship with him. “In his present behavior

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