High School Dance Research Paper

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As a little girl, I grew up watching all the cheesy Disney movies where the main characters fall in love and slow dance at their high school dances. I dreamed that one day my homecoming or prom would be that magical. By the time I was a freshman, this fairytale had manifested itself to the point that all I could think about was who I going to slow dance with at my first high school dance. As I secretly hoped it would be with the boy from my English class, I never prepared myself for the harsh reality of what homecoming at my school looked like. I went to the dance with a group that I barely knew and had to miss out on the picture taking because I had a soccer game. My dress was uncomfortable and while I thought it looked weird, my mother was convinced it was the most beautiful thing she had ever seen. It was already a rough start but I held onto that sparkling image of slow dancing with a boy who I had never even talked to. When I arrived at the dance, I was immediately met with disappointment when I saw the dark lights and heard the loud, hip-hop music. Where was all the pretty banners and balloons? Or the big, shiny disco ball? Why were the lights down so low and why is everyone dancing like that? I felt as if I were in a club. At this point, I was so far outside of my comfort zone, my tiny freshman brain had no clue what to do. …show more content…

Since I had no other friends, I followed my group into the middle of the dance floor and at the center of what the other kids called the “grinding circle.” That was the last place I wanted to be but I did not want to be seen as a party pooper. I endured my feelings of discomfort and tried my best to enjoy myself but eventually called it quits when a boy grabbed me and uninvitingly began to “dance” with me. I left the dance humiliated and felt dumb to have believed that high school was like how the movies said it

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