Henry David Thoreau: Breaking Away From Society

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Across generations over centuries of time, people have yearned to achieve freedom: freedom from materialistic possession, freedom from responsibilities, freedom from society. Breaking away from society and establishing one’s own identity struck most individuals, like writer Henry David Thoreau, as hopeful and adventurous. Thoreau took the challenge in 1854 to fulfill this desire of freedom from society by building himself a house far from civilization (Thoreau 6). By removing himself from the materialistic world and breaking all connections with people from the nearby city, Thoreau attempted to experience freedom within nature. Although one might argue that freedom comes at the cost of breaking all social ties, Jonathan Haidt clearly proves …show more content…

Jonathan Haidt, however, shares that respecting connections after forming them is key to happiness because our bonds would not flourish if one individual believed that his or her part in the bond was more beneficial than the other’s. My roommate Yvette and I express gratitude towards each other and care for each other in our dorm and outside of college. Our connection is based on trust, security, and friendship; however, if I were to solely receive her support and take without reciprocating, I would not be valuing Yvette as much as I value myself. If this were to continue, our friendship would be bland and eventually nonexistent. Breaking this friendship would hurt my well-being and Yvette’s as well. I pondered on what distinction separates a relationship of basic needs and that of trust and love and found through Haidt’s book that the key distinction is respecting others as my …show more content…

Freedom from social obligations and constraints may seem appealing at first glance because an individual is free to act according to his or her own rules and ignore other rules of conduct (Haidt 133). Inconsequently, this freedom from society may encourage people to abandon their jobs, homes, and marriages in search of personal fulfillment and satisfaction (Haidt 133). Haidt argues that leaving these responsibilities is counterintuitive to pursuing happiness because these social obligations provide people a stable base of relationships to build upon. Cutting connections with one’s family and community will bring an individual further from experiencing happiness in one’s life; however, fostering relationships within one’s social circles will provide a sense of belonging and purpose in an individual’s

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