Harold And Maude Psychology

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Our sense of reality in society is not shaped by individuals, but rather shaped by all members of society working collectively. The more member’s society has to back up a topic considered abstract, the quicker and easier it becomes recognized as a social normality. This fact is demonstrated in two movies, “Lars and the Real Girl” and “Harold and Maude”. The party hosted by a Cindy from Larses office, in Lars and the Real Girl demonstrates how if everyone accepts something it becomes a standard. The multiple therapy sessions by family and friends for Harold, in Harold and Maude proves that on an individual basis, opinions are not based off of what individuals think but rather what society tells them. A common topic faced in society is love, …show more content…

I believe this scene clearly demonstrates how on an individual basis opinions are based off of what society already considers a normality. This scene consist of Harold attending three different therapy sessions held by his Uncle Victor, a psychiatrist, and a priest. In society a relationship similar to Harold and Maude’s would be classified as unnatural or abnormal. It is socially normal for Harold to have a relationship with someone in his own age group rather than someone more than three times older than him. Harold’s first session was with his Uncle Victor, Victor explained to Harold how his relationship is viewed as not normal (PG149). Victor based his view off of the current social normality instead of expressing what he himself thinks. Harold’s second session is with a psychiatrist. Similar to Uncle Victor, the psychiatrist also states what's normal in society instead of talking about what's normal to him. The psychiatrist starts that the Oedipus complex is normal in their society, but Harold’s situation is abnormal and puzzles him (PG150). The third and final session is held by the priest, the priest unlike the others mention the physical attraction between age groups set by society. The priest tells Harold the Church has nothing against a relationship with the young and the old, but then continues to tell Harold his relationship is …show more content…

With more members supporting a non-recognized topic, the quicker and easier it becomes recognized. Two movies that demonstrated this fact are “Lars and the Real Girl” and “Harold and Maude”. Both movies show how if everyone were to accept something it becomes a standard and no longer looked at differently by society. They also show how on an individual basis opinions are not based off of what individuals think but rather what society thinks about the topic at hand. Love was a situation both Lars and Harold were facing, with society there to guide them. Both movies were perfect examples for the fact that what society indicates as conventional is based and shaped off of the amount of people supporting it. The more members a situation has to back it up the faster and easier it becomes recognized as a social

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