Great Expectations: Miss Havisham

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Character Essay
Acceptance and self-growth is necessary to reach closure in times of despair. However, if one were to stay in denial, the consequences of their actions could easily escalate to greater problems. In the novel, Great Expectations by Charles Dickens, Miss Havisham is a victim of such retributions. As an only child, Miss Havisham was a spoiled girl born into a wealthy household raised by a single father. When she came of age, Miss Havisham inherited all the money from his father’s fortune and fell in love with a man named Compeyson. Despite warnings of his swindling history, Miss Havisham proceeds to marry him. On the wedding day, he leaves her at the altar and takes all of her money with him. Miss Havisham suffers a mental breakdown …show more content…

After Estella defies Miss Havisham and breaks Pip’s heart by announcing her marriage to Drummle, “the spectral figure of Miss Havisham, her hand still covering her heart, seemed all resolved into a ghastly stare of pity and remorse” (Dickens, ). In this moment, several significant changes happen to Miss Havisham. For one, she sees the heartbreak and agony she experienced when she was left at the altar mirrored in Pip. Instead of feeling satisfied and healed, Miss Havisham’s pain is only deepened by her guilt. Many other things also backfire. Miss Havisham realizes the monster she created from Estella by filling her with only pride, not love, is her ultimate downfall. From this, her delusion is vanished as she sees the world for what it truly is with Pip as a mirror for seeing the wrong in her actions. Trying to redeem herself, Miss Havisham begs for forgiveness, helps Herbert Pocket, and leaves a fortune to Herbert’s father. These actions display maturity because she sacrifices her pride by begging for Pip’s forgiveness and giving away the weapon she used to enthrall people- money. Additionally, after Pip shows her grace even after experiencing Miss Havisham’s pain, it is possible that she could realize that she should forgive herself and everyone else too. By being able to overcome her pride and her unforgivingness, we can infer that Miss Havisham is able to move on from the …show more content…

At the beginning of the story, Miss Havisham values her pride and takes painful lengths to maintain her security by inflicting pain on others. She is also unforgiving and holds a grudge that she vows to keep until she dies. Both these characteristics prevent her from the help and love she needed in able to move on. However, when she finds remorse through seeing a vision of her wrongs through Pip’s agony, she is able to grow. From her maturity to seeing the wrong in her actions, Miss Havisham is able to overcome her pride and unforgiving personality, thus, allowing her to move on and find self-growth as a person. The lesson learned from Miss Havisham’s growth is that allowing trivial things to disrupt the bigger picture can be hazardous to one’s life. Thus, one must take actions to achieve acceptance and self-growth in order to see the bigger

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