Good Man Is Hard To Find Manipulation

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Despite the fact the plot in Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been? differs from A Good Man Is Hard to Find, the themes of isolation, manipulation, and violence are present in both short stories. The malicious ideas that arise in both pieces of literature connect to women’s abuse as it became an issue in the late 1960s and 1970s. Both authors emphasize the issue of the violence against women in their stories since marital rape and other forms of abuse had no legal preventions. The authors specifically focus on the emotional abuse experienced by women as serial killers and abusers became popular during this time period and continue to be an issue in today’s society. Based on Leanne Perry’s Step-by-Step Pattern of a Serial Killer, …show more content…

He even states dominantly, “‘. . .honey, I’m not coming in there but you are coming out here’” (Oates, page 377, line 113). This calm statement frightens Connie. She does not want to listen to him, but he gives her no other choice. Arnold also uses mind games to convince Connie to come with him. Arnold’s persuasive techniques cajole Connie into following his orders. As with the theme of isolation, the manipulation does not end. Even as Connie follows Westbrook 3 Arnold’s demands, she knows she will inevitably fall into his trap and be killed, which shows how men have the power to manipulate helpless women. On the contrary, The Misfit gains the grandmother’s trust by distracting her with casual conversation while his gang brutally murders her family. This technique can be linked to The Wooing Phase. In A Good Man Is Hard to Find, The Misfit easily manipulates the grandmother after he rips away her safety. Near the end of her life, the grandmother becomes more hysterical, shouting, “You’ve got good blood! I know you wouldn’t shoot a lady! I know you come from nice people! Pray!” (O’Connor, page 436, line 131). However, The Misfit plays with her mind by making it seem like he will not kill her. As …show more content…

The violence reaches its resolution only after Connie follows Arnold’s orders and goes outside into his arms. Arnold appears to put on a facade as he pretends to be wholehearted. However, in A Good Man Is Hard to Find, The Misfit fails to be sincere as the violence completely destroys the family. He abuses the grandmother emotionally and psychologically as he fills her with false hope for life. Not only did the grandmother have to hear her family be killed, but she also experienced denial and emotional pain. On top of this, while the grandmother tries to make The Misfit feel like he has a family, he shoots her, “The Misfit sprang back as if a snake had bitten him and shot her three times through the chest” (O’Connor, page 437, line 136). The violence the grandmother experiences surpasses the pain that the rest of her family undergoes and shows that men have the ability to harm women in a multitude of ways. Arnold and The Misfit both use different forms of violence to capture and murder their victims. During the late 1960s and 1970s, the abuse of women became an issue and authors began to portray this in their literature. Because Oates and O’Connor were both against the abuse

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