Why Do We Keep Going Back to That One Guy? 7 Shocking Excuses As women become efficient in the dating scene, why do we keep going back to that one guy? Is he irresistible? Is he controversial? The real answers are fascinating. Our evolution for dating continues to harden and strengthen us. We dodge the stressful, scary, and contentious relationships in favor of healthy ones while transforming from the naive rookie to the confident pro. Still, we rely on that one man when healthy relationships turn sour. He's the one man we cannot let go. Moreover, why is that? Why do we keep coming back to that one guy? Because It Will Be Different This Time Remind me again; why do we keep going back to that one guy? After all, it failed the first 100,000 times, so what's one more? Women hold on to the idea that things are going to change. He'll stop cheating. He won't …show more content…
A face-to-face confrontation provides honest insight because we get to see his appearance, his personality, and his girlfriend in hopes he's miserable without us. Neither situation provides adequate reasoning to resolve the question, "Why do we keep going back to that one guy?" Instead, those reasons are excuses to see him one more time. In closing, why do we keep coming back to that one guy? No one answer stands out as the primary reason. The reason depends highly on your motivations. Unfortunately, none of those reasons is good enough to communicate with "that one guy." Therefore, women must cut off communication with him permanently. As far as closure goes, some relationships don't get closure, and women must accept that not all relationships will end like a romance novel. To find the right man, women cannot go back to that one guy. You cannot chat with that one guy about your problems in the current relationship. You cannot ask him for favors, either. If he is the one who is holding on, it's your job to shut it
Beginning a relationship is usually different from person to person, but with mostly every relationship, there is a cycle that is known as “Relational Development” which illustrates the rise and fall of relationships into ten stages (pg. 283). In the film, The Breakup, Vaughn, who takes on the
complicated relationship in that people often carry the baggage of past relationships into the next.
Small, tall, big, or strong everyone loves basketball and excitement that it have brought to people over this long period of time. NBA League originated on August 3, 1949. In 2006, one and done rule was established and high school basketball players had to sit out a year or attend different colleges or universities to be in shape for the next year to enter the draft. Many amazing and even best players such as Dwight Howard, Lebron James, and even Kobe Bryant. This leads us to a question, if we really need one and done rule when obviously we can see that high school basketball players have the skill to compete on that level.
anyone stuck with this type of man. The choice of what type of man a woman chooses to
A men biggest weakness is expressing their emotions. They are taught from an early age to be fearless and powerful. They are informed that 'Big Boys Don 't Cry ' and to 'Man Up '. Men start to connect feelings and emotions with their weakness. They come to believe that they have failed if they become affectionate and were to open their hearts. As a result, many men try to be the warrior who saves the people around them and always puts on a bold face. Men are typically the provider of their household and tend to play the male role. “All men are the same”, is the most common phrase we all hear a lot nowadays, but some of us fail to realize that they are not. Carver argues that men are successful in relationship when they are unafraid to express emotion.
In “The Fish” by Elizabeth Bishop, the narrator attempts to understand the relationship between humans and nature and finds herself concluding that they are intertwined due to humans’ underlying need to take away from nature, whether through the act of poetic imagination or through the exploitation and contamination of nature. Bishop’s view of nature changes from one where it is an unknown, mysterious, and fearful presence that is antagonistic, to one that characterizes nature as being resilient when faced against harm and often victimized by people. Mary Oliver’s poem also titled “The Fish” offers a response to Bishop’s idea that people are harming nature, by providing another reason as to why people are harming nature, which is due to how people are unable to view nature as something that exists and goes beyond the purpose of serving human needs and offers a different interpretation of the relationship between man and nature. Oliver believes that nature serves as subsidence for humans, both physically and spiritually. Unlike Bishop who finds peace through understanding her role in nature’s plight and acceptance at the merging between the natural and human worlds, Oliver finds that through the literal act of consuming nature can she obtain a form of empowerment that allows her to become one with nature.
There are many types of men in the world, and each type displays a variety of distinguishable characteristics. Women should become aware of these characteristics before considering a prospective mate. The smallest of personal details, from where and how they met (including the first date), the way he walks and talks, the clothes he wears, the career choice he's made, the vacation spots he frequents, or the automobile he drives can offer valuable, meaningful, insightful clues to whether or not a man will ever settle down with anyone. There are two main types of men in the world: the committer and the non-committer.
Women are usually not very confident with their appearance. A disrespectful guy tends to use this to his advantage. By keeping her confidence level low, and leading her to believe that she cannot do any better keeps her at his side. When a nice guy is sweet to her and tries to build up that confidence level, her first subconscious thought is "Why is he being nice to me? There must be something wrong with him." This is, of course, an absurd way to think. But when she has to go chasing after Mr. Wrong, subconsciously she is thinking "He must be something special if he's that hard to catch." This, of course, is silly thinking as well, but this is what goes on every day in the minds of women.
One main idea of this book was that with the right mindset anything is possible. This is proven in the book when Louie is in the concentration camp and has to hold up a large piece of wood while having the Japanese guards stare at him. This shows that he had the mindset that he could outlast the guards and that he could overcome any obstacles in life.
Unbroken by Lauren Hillenbrand is written about the perspective of a young Olympic runner named Louis Zamperini. He is from Torrance, California. Life for him was normal until the he was called into service for his country. It was then when one of his most unforgettable experiences developed.
In the second relationship, things are often thought to be better, but it’s not always the case.
With some degree of differences, every individual has their own capacity to form and maintain relationships. Some people naturally form and maintain close and caring relationships, but unfortunately, some others are not.
to let asnyone off. Even though he knows what is right and that they are
Do you believe in happy endings? Once in a person’s lifetime, everyone finds this one perfect person whom they fall hopelessly in love with and live happily ever after. That is a mere fallacy, in the real world, this simply does not happen. Yes, people do have common interests and therefore develop romantic involvement, but it is basic common sense that these relationships have a life span and simply cannot last. There are certain people who aren’t meant to fit into your life in the long-term no matter how much you want them to. Sometimes people come into your life to shake you up, tear apart your ego, flip your perspective, show your obstacles, break your heart and mind open. The cause of a breakup can be due to various reasons such as cheating, falling out of love, quarrelling or the lack of communication.
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