Gender Roles In Richard E. Kim's Lost Names

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Throughout history, human beings have struggled with the idea of equality. Whether in times of peace or times of war, the genders have almost never been equal in terms of political, economic or social pressures and activities. These injustices can be found everywhere— in conversations, classes, media, films, literature, and so forth. One example of this “hidden sexism” in literature can be found in the novel, Lost Names, by Richard E. Kim. Kim’s book, when first glanced at, seems normal. However, normal does not always mean right. When a closer look is taken, the stereotypes of the (specifically female) genders are obvious and apparent, and the women in the story seem to be either nonexistent or classically aligned with “female traits.” …show more content…

However, out of these characters, every single one of them supports the antiquated idea that the traditional and proper place for a woman is in the home, with the exception of the sister, who is too young to partake in such activities. These women either do not have jobs or work in domestic careers. They stay home, cook and clean. They have no aspirations outside of the home. None of them are role models by any stretch of the imagination to the women and girls reading this book, yet the women make comments about themselves that support these outrageous ideas. For example, the grandmother says, “Besides, if I can’t take care of the feeding of my grandchildren, what else am I good for?” (95). Through this line, the grandmother announces to the entire family that she feels the only positive trait she brings to the world is her ability to cook, despite her other characteristics. The message that women are lesser to men shines through loud and …show more content…

In the book, the farmer who works for the family says, “I’ve found two girls, and I’ll let you know which one I will marry when I decide which one I like better” (82). This line is problematic, to say the least. The farmer acts as if the women do not get a choice in their marriage when he talks about marrying the one he will eventually decide upon. He does not take into consideration the idea that, maybe, the women do not want to marry him at all. He also is in seemingly serious relationships with two women. Two. Generally, that is considered cheating or being unfaithful. However, the farmer does not seem to care what the women think about the situation. This lack of communication between the couples tells the reader how misogynistic the farmer is. He does not plan on giving the women a choice, and he does not plan on listening to what they want. Instead, he confides in a little boy, a child with the maturity level of one his age. This farmer really believes that an immature boy is more reliable than adult women, and this must stop. This character portrays obvious sexism, and the fact that the boy agrees with him seems to prove the author’s point of view on the matter. He finds what the farmer says to be completely logical and extends his acceptance of the anti-feminist beliefs. Similarly, the boy says to one of the maids, “You don’t understand! There are

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