Gender Criticism In The Kite Runner

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As children grow up they are always expected to be a certain way. Some children are expected to better than their parents or some to be just as “perfect” as they were. While reading the novel The Kite Runner written by Khaled Hosseini uses the theme of always being expected who to be played a lot in the book. Amir, the main character grew up in a wealthy home in Afghanistan with his father Baba. Gender Criticism was played out a lot throughout the book because Amir next to his father is too completely different people personality wise. Amir always wanted to do the right thing to have his father be happy led him to eventually betray someone who truly cared for him. Baba saw that something was not right in Amir but never quite was able to tie his head around it. “ Sometimes I look out this window and I see him playing on the street with the neighborhood boys. I see how they push him around, take his toys from him, give him a shove 2here, a whack there. And you know, he never fights back. Never. He just . . . drops his head and . . . “ (22). As Baba see’s this in his own son in a way he has a bit of disappointment. Baba wanted Amir to be as tough as he was he wanted his son to fight back when he was supposed to fight back. To let be known that he was not …show more content…

‘ If I hadn’t seen the doctor pull him out of my wife with my own eyes, I’d never believe he’s my son.’ “ (23). Baba expectations of Amir have gotten to be so high that he’s even second guessed about Amir being his own son. He saw how he always got made of but he never stood up for them. Amir was always told the story of Baba fighting a “bear” realistically he didn’t but they way this was used it showed that Baba was strong enough to beat a bear. Baba always wanted Amir to be as strong as him physically or mentally. Baba his mind set on power and business, the more you worked the more you were recognized the more high achievements you had the more you were

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