Fish Cheeks By Amy Tan Essay

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About 498,900 new immigrants enter America every year, with every immigration comes different difficulties. A major problem that most immigrants run into is culture integration. For many, the older generation will be more effected by the culture gap, whereas, the younger generation may not be effected as much. Older generations are wary of the culture differences, whereas, the younger generation has a strong zeal to accept the ways of the new culture. However, with the youth’s eagerness comes a diminishing regard for their old culture. It is an ongoing struggle to find a perfect median between the two. The younger generation of immigrants does not appreciate the older generations efforts at trying to keep their heritage alive, until they themselves become older. …show more content…

She shows that in 1987 culture simulation was a big struggle for both young and old generations. As a child, Tan was beyond eager to accept this new lifestyle, yet, her family stayed true to their culture. Her mother still cooked original Chinese meals, and her father still burped after a meal in appreciation. These few things brought Tan embarressment of her family and heritage. Tan wished she could just change into an American, so much in fact that she prayed for “a new slim American nose” (Tan 74). Her mother didn’t forbid her from doing anything American, yet she wanted Tan to remember where her roots were. “You want to be the same as American girls on the outside…But inside you must always be Chinese. You must be proud you are different. Your only shame is to have shame” (Tan 75). Not until Tan was older did she appreciate her mother’s sensible words and what lengths her parents went to keep her

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