Feminine Mystique

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The Problem That Has No Name The Feminine Mystique written by Betty Friedan was one of the first books that targeted the idealized image of an American woman at the time. The ideal image of an American woman, during the civil rights era, was a middle-class, college-educated housewife. Who's sole purpose was to happily take care of the home while the men focus their time on more pressing issues, such as the fast-paced world of business or the politics of the Russian conflict. These issues were simply too much for the common woman to contemplate. So the problems of the outside world should be best left to the men to handle, thus leaving the woman’s role in the world in the home. Trapped in their suburban prisons, women were discouraged from …show more content…

Women are the primary buyers of the household, responsible for purchasing food, clothes, cleaning supplies and products necessary for the home. Commercial advertising takes advantage of the tired, restless and bored housewife. Through rapidly changing trends and fashions, advertising held the ability to control the housewife into staying in the home. Advertisers would portray a happy housewife making a satisfying meal the whole family loves using their new kitchen appliance. They make promises of fulfillment through the process of buying things. Causing a cycle of housewives buying the newest technology for the home or clothes for the next fashion trend and then repeating that over and over while women scramble to keep up with the trends. Friedan explains that since her own self-identity has been lost then she looks toward material possessions to find some sort of identity. The science of selling to unhappy housewives is perfected by advertisers who try to manipulate housewives in order to give them a “sense of identity, purpose, creativity, the self-realization, even the sexual joy they lack—by the buying of things…”. “We show him how to tell her that its creative to be in the kitchen. We liberate her need to be creative in the kitchen.” Advertising manipulates women into buying more and more, constantly searching for the fulfillment they …show more content…

The feminine mystique comes from the dissatisfaction of women’s new role in society, the happy housewife. Who’s biggest worries were getting the kids to school, cleaning the house and having dinner ready to satisfy her husband. These housewives are trapped at home and are told to not go out and pursue a career or higher education but to stay in the home because it is their responsibility. It is the responsibility of the tired mother to make sure that the home is functioning and to make sure the economy is running. A woman is expected to keep up with the latest trends in fashion to look beautiful for her husband, she is expected to know how to cook and clean and make the house look presentable so her neighbors can see how well she is doing. Advertisers take control and manipulate the wants and needs of women to keep them in the home, cooking, cleaning and decorating. If a housewife is unable to do all of these things she is considered a failure by her peers and unable to take care of a home, her one job. So she must work day in and out to make sure she has the best and looks the best. Even though Friedan fails to include the struggles many women who are less fortunate than the white, middle-class housewife, the feminine mystique brought upon a

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