How to Walk Away from a Married Man
Being with a married man might feel exhilarating at first. But, if he fails to end his marriage and commit to you fully, you may need to make the choice to end things. Walking away can be challenging, but you can successfully cut ties by remembering your worth and getting support from someone who loves you. Once you’re ready, have the talk with your married lover and let him know that you can’t be with him anymore. Then, shake up your routine to stay away from him for good.
==Steps==
===Making the Decision===
#Tell yourself you deserve better. However you came to be in a relationship with a married man, you deserve better than to settle for scraps of his attention and affection. Remind yourself of your
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What can your friend do to make you feel better or help you through this process? Maybe you just want a hug or perhaps you’d like to practice what you’ll say to him during the breakup talk.
#Grieve in whatever way feels right. Undoubtedly, you will feel emotional pain once you come to terms with your decision. Take a few days to be gentle with yourself. Curl up in your bed, watch romantic movies, and cry. Shout your frustrations at the top of your lungs. (-- removed HTML --) http://living.thebump.com/inner-strength-leave-married-man-15110.html (-- removed HTML --)
#*There is no right or wrong way to grieve the loss of a relationship. Do whatever you need to do to release the pain.
#See a therapist. Starting a relationship with someone who is unavailable may become a pattern for you, so consult with a therapist. This professional can talk to you about destructive habits that may be keeping you from the love you truly deserve. (-- removed HTML --) https://www.elephantjournal.com/2012/08/what-i-learned-from-having-an-affair-with-a-married-man-jennifer-garam/ (-- removed HTML --)
#*A therapist can also coach you on leaving a married man, so that you have the confidence to actually go through with it.
===Having the
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After ending the affair, take some time away for yourself. Plan a solo getaway somewhere you have been dying to visit or take a weekend trip to a nearby city with your best friends. You might also visit friends or relatives with whom you’ve fallen out of touch.
#*Visiting a different place can help you stay grounded and positive after the decision. Plus, if you’re around loved ones, you will feel care for and hopeful about the future.
#Make changes to your daily routine. Shake up your daily life by filling the holes where your married man used to be. Set some new goals, such as trying a new fitness activity or redecorating your home. Join a new club so you can connect with new people. Or, try online dating to meet someone new. (-- removed HTML --) https://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/breaking-up-with-and-getting-over-a-married-manattached-man/ (-- removed HTML --)
#*Switching up some aspects of your routine helps you maintain some distance from the married man. It also helps you build new memories on your
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...ouses back and get involved with another person. There is not a good enough reason for someone to cheat on his or her spouse under any circumstance. If they want to, then they need to end the relationship first. Or else, they just need to try to make the relationship work as it is.
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... we must find a way to stop the pain! We must accept that there is a natural order of things in this universe, marriage and the family is one of them. When we upset the order, the end result can make the difference in future generations.
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