Examples Of Cinderella Can Ruin People's Life

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Cinderella Can Ruin People’s Lives Why living positively is important? Everyone goes through a hard time during their lives. Living your life positively is a good thing and it protects you from the severe problems that can be caused by negative thoughts. However, being delusional does not bring any happiness, and it can make your life get worse. According to Cinderella which was written by Peggy Orenstein, all girls just have to wait until the perfect guy comes into their lives. The way of thinking Cinderella promotes is very unhealthy for females, and can cause many girls to be delusional, suffer from depression, and instead of living up to their full potential, girls miss out a healthy social life. Firstly, Cinderella promotes a very unhealthy way of thinking because it causes females to become delusional. According to Cinderella, all …show more content…

They also become conceited and suffer from depression of this delusional along their life. This often makes these girls to have bad attitude and have them expect more from there close ones. These females thinking that they are princesses causing them to miss out a lot of healthy social activities such as sports, or going out. Theie princesses make them think they are more valuable than everyone else and have them not do anything unfeminine. In order to change people’s way of thinking they must be given martial or stories that give them a good way of living or to teach them more moral values to carry on along their life, such as, that the beauty is not always on how the girl looks like, but it is on how the girl’s personality is, and how she reacts toward people, and her attitude. The point is to teach them that in order to avoid them from the belief of “perfect princess”, so they can be able to deal with their life later

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